Family members are made of individuals just as in a society or the global community and in the process I often look in disarray with everyone else but myself. My rigid discipline of myself and others demanded certain sacrifices to be taken ie meaning there are those who call for a slap and those who need to be hugged.
There is no doubt that there are members within a family both men and women who are blinded "exhibition of selfishness" it's who I call brats that have been pampered to such a level where the rod is applied. My father knows me well that I do not answer to treats nor to obstinate attitudes of people and in those moments I chose to fight. Ruth is ruthless in moments when survival is demanded. Ruth is also rooted in beliefs or principles that guides people, what characteristics are exhibited depends on the circumstances or desired actions that brings either doom or faith.
It is arrogant to presume that those who serve shouldn't be served and those who served shouldn't serve. It is an interchangeable act on behalf of those who need help or leadership, the meaning of the "circle of life". Those who seek to be worshiped without deeds are in for a shocker.
Treating maidens "staff" with disregard renders a home or business to danger. A servant can hurt a child when oppressed "undermined" just as family members who are neglected can become vicious and it takes a level of discipline to reprocess hurtful emotions into proactive deeds. Being able to see the difference between who is reacting and who is provoking is necessary for those who choose to lead hence persons "elders" are held accountable for exposing those who violate what gives everyone the ability to function.
Blame pushers are often those who are guilty, those who go away silently are often those who have seen that no one is prepared to change.
Ruth; root cause of effects seen regardless of the environment it displays itself. May the truth set everyone free, speak of what has been done for others to learn, being afraid of loosing image traps not just self but others, keeping up appearances that has no basis sooner or later becomes the prison/trap. It's hard for some to do so as their aim is to be worshiped. Women of Faith are often inattractive but she finds herself glowing through her deeds.
The ruthless youth of today are those kids who have been rejected by those who aren't able to find solutions to managing people, they are called names and scatter heads by the management who aren't able to grasp the concept of directing. Kids who are born in affluent families tend to see themselves as superior to others who grow up in a perceived poor homes and in return render themselves to what I call the boomerang effect, which is what happened in the case of Aluu and other nations with the spark of youth violence in universities.
To me intolerance of youth is paramount to bad leadership both by parents and people in governance. A youth who has lived for 18 years have experience even if their brain waves "emotions" hormone driven attitudes are a nuisance and only those who truly care have the resolve in seeing them through, those who pursue material wealth and image seldom have the acumen for making the decisions needed in getting them ready for life in the big world. My dad today may not be the richest man but he has the best among his peer mates and yes I am proud to rub it in their faces for the scorn he has had to endure. I may fight my family but they are mine never the less and it's my conscious decision in order for them to be safe and sound.
I have a disdain for blowing air up anyone's ass regardless of if they are older or richer. I may have paid my dues but I ain't anyone's fool to be toyed with and I don't need anyone fighting my battles for me. It is low to use mothers and sisters to fight the wives when the choice was made by you.
I love my Grand Mothers and Auntie because they had shown me what care is and hurt that they didn't get to see and experience joy in their lives for the lame ass men who they were married to.
Beating your chests as gorilaz do only makes a mockery of what the meaning of man stands for. Saying that men are respected for the way their women behave around them for sake of imaginary respect yet don't look at their own backs only makes the women weak "insecure". Family matters that are swept under the carpet often rears itself in shameful acts by people who have been spoilt rotten by false impressionists, sometimes it's too late to salvage matters between family and societies which is why a comeback is impossible, it's not worth it as the damage has been done.
Looking all pristine is a farce where people tend to take their lives.
I love my Grand Mothers and Auntie because they had shown me what care is and hurt that they didn't get to see and experience joy in their lives for the lame ass men who they were married to.
I still love my uncles even if I disapprove of their actions as husbands and sought to do what I could as a child and youth, now as a woman I am ruthless with behaviours men and women who equally exhibit stupidity when they blame each other for what they should have known should they demand respect for grey matter they didn't use.
Looking all pristine is a farce where people tend to take their lives.
Boys scouts camping.
Hunger isn't greed, to starve people of of knowledge makes them ruthless, to starve men of love/spoken word makes them cold, men don't need talking to but spoken to hence you see them not listening, teaching a fool a lesson makes him wise, teaching a wise person a lesson makes him smart.
Common sense implies having common activities but with a varying amount of experiences that can be derived from it. Assuming that everyone must think the same renders an environment to turn into chaos. Finding common grounds in discussions allows for activities implementation to go smoothly for one to say there is leadership. To lead is to show a map of things and let the people chose/speak on what ways they would like to follow, in the process the leader explains what and when which implies that a leader should possess analytical skills in conjunction with visionary abilities. What often messes with plans/analysis is that misinformation ie feedback is done wrongly which means the troopers must possess similar mental as well as emotional security for executing dreams. Skills aren't just physical but a mental stamina to see things through.
Spying is an attribute of hunters. Scouting for information is an attribute of marketers in production of advertisements and campaign leadership. New ways and thoughts often Trigger creativity in others if only they saw it that way.
For those who fight new ideas it reveals a series of things either disruption or unpreparedness to process the gravity of consequences of an effect. Usually Beurocrats react in a negative manner when active persons take steps, I hate administration when in critical moments are trying to save their behinds from being blamed for mismanagement, how about the misappropriation of time? Time is also a resource that many can't recover, regretful people always think that there is time to bring back lost moments, ah tough luck.
Revolutionary minds are seldom shocked as they are the one's shocking minds into action.
When someone is saying be nice it means you are racking their minds or eyes, someone who likes your style will always smile as it allows their minds to respond to their hearts.
Has kindness ever paid the price it takes to be good? To be kind is to be like someone, in a case where someone needs to break free from the cage one has been subjected to what's required?
Get out of my way tactics "bum rush" is usually explored. Reinvent yourself, turn things around, switch and twist events. Snake in the Monkeys shadow turns into the Air bender. Quite a stare if you realise the sudden switch of movement/mental orientation to act provocatively.
Bruce Lee meets Jackie Chan.
I am out now with kids while I bought them cone ice cream I got myself the KFC Krushers! Hmmm what a night it will be, hubbying the rugby guy. Spinning the flirt, Naughty after warring! Isn't sex after a fight a thrill? Most whimsical men can't stand the heat they create then blame the wife for creating erectile disfunction's. What a life. σΎ©π Luther in action with Barry in the closet, Westlife in my ears whispering "let's be frank" tunes; vould you like me to visper svit vords in your ear? What are those sweet words? Some like it hot some like it not, it distorts their concentration while for others it's a stimulant.
Ego vs Drive.
Guys who have ego problems often need air blown up their behinds. For the pussy cat? it's a compliment, stuck with you.
I need loads of work to put on a dress. Men I don't know how girls do that. Last time I wore a shirt dress what when I was 22. With my height and build I never felt comfortable in girly stuff. To rack a guy in the jaw is a comfort zone since they don't know how to approach a gal. As soon as I dress up I end up attracting dushbags so o have resulted in an alternative tactic can't roll can't touch, by the way is no way. Speed off like a bullet.
Laugh now cry later has a deeper meaning, when Christian women are treated wrongly they are told to endure, put up a smile. It is written in the bible about what to do when fasting, paint your face, look good so no one will consider you a hypocrite. Now my question is if men don't believe in tears would a smile be more appropriate? When a woman looks down and depressed she is actually showing her pain but no one wants to hear, so they should do a complete overhaul of themselves which is showing the other cheek.
I mean when the body is fasting doesn't the strain show? When the heart is fasting what's there to show, or should one be feeling through while going through the motions?
Matthew 6:16-18 “And when you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces that their fasting may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, that your fasting may not be seen by others but by your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.”
When the Islamic woman goes through fasting she is often covered with the hijab. What does that mean? She covers her face so the man doesn't see her tears? When will men wake up to see past the pride?
Smile now cry later applies to men as well who laugh while they do cruel things then later cry wolf. When a woman speaks to a man about what he is doing wrong he often thinks she is just talking, when she keeps quiet then the real action happens.
What does it take to ask how is she doing today? What does it take to say hope she is ok? What does it take to reply to a heart that is hurt?
When I speak to couples that are going through problems and more often it is always the guys that are messing up themselves I ask what's up? He says I don't understand what she wants from me, I simply rephrase the question to both what do you want from yourselves in separate discuss, and eventually it's quite evident at then where the disparity lay.
Quarrels always revolve around 2 factors either emotional or career dissatisfaction on both sides. Most Men feel down when their financial status isn't stable and most women feel down when that frustration is being taken out on them. Women who have self drive usually don't notice financial difficulties as they are always looking for ways to make things work, for men who have such women what happens is they start nagging ("ie they have switched from being men into women") she isn't coming home on time, her home duties are neglected etc. that's a guy who isn't happy with himself.
The possessive nature of men breeds oppressive natures in women. If men want to be free why hold down the women? Everybody becomes territorial when thoughts of invasiveness start creeping in. There is no doubt that jealousy is bread when a third party is in bed, I've always preferred to runway as being a dumping ground isn't a desire, if I become jelouse I become a fan "delusional". We all know what cheer leaders are capable of, I am sorry I am a rose in the fisted glove. Women should be strong so men know how to behave, but does that make her attractive or a man like him?
There is a factor that many may not understand as to the confidence builders I grew up with. At the age of 2 I was given to my mothers grandparents to live with while my parents were students before we moved to Nigeria and at age 18 when we returned I stayed back to live with my fathers parents. My grand parents coached me same way they brought up their kids, which in return made me see my parents as siblings not as parents. I don't think it was a wrong choice as that gave me the confidence and care I exhibit towards my siblings as a "mother" character, should I have been brought up by my parents I would have been a different person.
Everyone is having a swell time when they are around me as well as they get a brushing when fishing for it. To be in business as well as being able to run a home maternal and paternal instincts wake within which allows me to have dialogues with people the way I do.
If nothing and no one matters why be afraid? Send everything to blazes. Does who care know how to honour their words. Some people say be careful what you wish for meaning have no care for what you have since it wasn't worth it. Why is everyone so well behaved?
Those who carry certificates from universities are the worst of all as they presume that technical knowledge is education yet when you look at their lives they are in tatters. If only going to school ever truly means getting a pass card at a good life. Work and having a life are 2 separate issues. If politics is about segregating people, if religion is about creating strife then why be surprised that we are all at peace?
The double standards of this world. Men who are honoured "praised" are either wise "crafty" by remaining silent, or fools as sheep for slaughter. I'd rather be a fool that have accolades that are worth nothing. As I said I am not a nice person I don't kiss ass, I kick ass!
Men who want straight answers should ask straight questions. Those who look for selfish ways get/make crooked roads.
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