Forget the question.

If someone asks you a simple question during a friendly conversation, it's easy to answer but suppose someone interrogates you instead. Imagine for a moment that the very same question is asked of you but the questioner does so in a suspicious tone of voice, and under a hot light. You may start to squirm. You may forget the answer. You may even forget the question.

There is no point talking about a problem if you have no solution to replace it!
Everyone sees the fire burning but no one asks what lit it up! To get a fair judgment on something always look at its cause not its effect! Not every fire is lit up to warm! Not every house built was for shelter!

Always question what you see or hear!