Is it my image people are worried about? Or they feel their faith has been turned upside down " the very nature of feeling insulted" by my stating that religeous minded people are dogmatic, men are cruel by nature is triggering men to feel ostracised, i ask that they look at what the world looks now, or perhaps they have idolised me "creating a perceptive image" of me that they need, thinking because i have kids, a business or is it that women have been silent for so long that men can't recognise that women can be like me? are women now dead in the head, heart and body? Yes it is shocking for the public to see a woman displaying such an array of affection for people. I am beginning to think that women think less of themselves and men enjoy the result of their acts which eventually turn into an open war unless someone puts a stop to it. Enough sleeping with the enemy.
Nigerian men have fuelled it more. What is Romance? What people presume is a classical act on behalf of the other? Does putting the blame on the other for not stimulating the others affection reasonable in the minds of men, if where it goes on is in your head alone? How about doing to the other what you like done to you, rather than wating for an invitation. Guys are scared of rejection women have become used to it.
Look at the average African mothers experience with polygamy and infidelity, why would their daughters believe that who they would meet isn't like their fathers? We all are culturing each other but there are a few of those who have respect for themselves and others.
You may be one in a million. Going by how people respond to each other is the exact example of why women don't open up. One man voices a conservative opinion and the rest follow instead of giving him a pointer or 2 that he doesn't speak for all men. There are men who marry "prostitutes" and are the happiest as she is no longer inhibited even if she may have been with other men prior to him. Most men marry the image of a nun then sneaking off to "prostitutes" you tell me who of them has a wondering eye the guy who sneaks off, the guy who openly accepts and gives another a chance to breath when there is no affection or the guy who has one bed he sleeps on?
Mothers are rearing boys with obsessive disorders, taking out on an innocent girl the frustrations they couldn't escape from at youth, all for the sake of putting up a socially acceptable image. I hail the world we live in. What a movie we made.
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