Enjoy on short term.

There is a distinction between relationship and marriage! But the story speaks of Ben's inability to rase his game, and he is using Kate to feel better about himself. It's a bit hard to judge, so i am stating hypothetically, but if Ben truly wanted to be with the love of his life he would have since divorced and moved on. What's the point in praying for a lost soul if it doesn't know it is lost. Until he realizes and best do something about his situation there is nothing madam can do! Unfortunately a large % of current marriages have this story at some point in time. This often happens when people marry young and the marriage has developed a monotonous turn! He will be back madam has to be patient, unfortunately Kate is only going to enjoy on short term!