Rather than guide.

For the most part people either are very cold ie they use either the "mind" or heart/body "emotions/moods"as a mode of expression but the soul seems rear. When religious speakers mention calling of the Holy Trinity/spirit it implies that a person is able to use all three senses at one's ie meaning being in one.

Everybody is capable of being in the spirit, however the journey seems long that most give up half way and this isn't achieved by being out of everyday livelihood but living to the fullest, it is in part and parcel a state of constant being.

The other reason why people find it hard to be in that state is because of the brainwashing that parents do to their children in the bid to look presentable to others and in return rubbing the child of their essence "instinct" to go through life and in search of their calling.

It is hard for a child to show an I don't agree with you disposition as parents tend to force their kids rather than guide.