Mr. and Mrs. Right!

Distinguish your true life mate from Mr./Mrs. Right Now. Is there a Mr right, or should you be what you want others to be? Leading by example?  What stage is your relationship in? Or if you are not in a relationship, at what stage do your relationships always end and you will find out why? Focusing on distinguishing compatibility vs the concept of companionship.

Identifying the stages of your relationship, the attributes, stumbling blocks, joys of each stage will tell you what to do or the stage you always get stuck in.

Fear is the basic reason why relationships start falling apart. A creeping of fear is your instincts telling you that something is out of place. When you meet someone, you were confident, and confidence smells of power. Power is intoxicating
Then after sometime one or the other becomes distracted, and the next thing you start thinking its because of you. He/She hasn’t called like he/she used to? Let me ask you, when you go out to a party for 5 days in a row and come back highly intoxicated every night  by the 6th day you WILL be toast. Give it a rest, go back to the life you have abandoned, take a relationship panadol. Don’t cut lose the person, talk to them about it. Most gals and some guys get overwhelmed by the attention and the speed. Some may like it but most draw back. At this stage no one is asking questions they should be asking

The very function of dating is to have fun. I wish I could express myself in other terms than ENJOY! This could be the memory that will bring you back together when bad. If you are about to start dating, or already in some sort of dating it helps to know the underlying reasons you are subconsciously seeking a relationship. We human beings are very complicated emotionally but that doesn’t mean the very physiology of man or a woman’s nature changes. We are Tools for procreation from the standpoint of nature and it's up to both to turn it into a relationship, that's divine intervention. You must understand even with your level of sophistication, that the meeting of 2 persons still remains crude till this day especially in the undeveloped worlds where love is replaced by default. Procreation!? This word is not as shallow as it may seem check the sound of it!

There is a moment in time when people confuse longing for passion! When a heart or body has been starved for long and you experience a touch inadvertently you infatuate love for passion! A body longs for touch, the heart longs for passion however both can become wrong!

Companionship is the emotional necessity that comes after the physiological cravings are satisfied. Grammar? In simple terms If you fit the in the picture you are chosen. Guys usually run if you don’t look good enough for them, women run if you don’t feel good enough for them. Life is a Bitch, but everyone wants comfort. Don’t take it personal, it is subconscious. You like a guy for how he feels; he likes you for how you look. Men are visual, women are physical. Companionship is much deeper. It is an alignment of strengths for opportunities. If one is weak the other may at some point be forced to overcompensate and at some point breaks down. Try to understand what SWOT analysis is. Relationships breakthroughs’ exists when both are honest to themselves and nice to each other.

There is no way to predict who is who, no one truly knows one self and often circumstances dictate the changes. If you are looking at your parents and making judgements of how your relationships will go or should be, you will fall flat to realising that even you don’t look like your parents. Let alone anyone else looking like theirs. Everyone is born unique, yes maybe certain traits are similar, but handling of problems differ from person to person. Everyone has a different outlook to life.  The dynamics within an individual, that’s what  determines the unique adjustment to an environment.