I guess Seeba knows how to groove.Structure of the Court System: Crash Course Government and Politics #19
Judge Dredd - Trailer
How about taking up your own kind of justice hehe I guess I'm not made for the weak hearted. looks like court cases are best for economic crimes rather than family feuds. Looks like those who were good become bad.
Phil Collins - I've forgotten everything
How To Have Amazing Sex (For Women) - Drive Your Man Wild In Bed
For the most part how someone makes love shows how they feel about themselves and in return towards the other. May the Lord help them sort out their esteem issues first before claiming a position in someone's life. Inhibited persons often think they ought to be pleasured than giving, some don't even care to think of it before and after claiming that they didn't get that excitement they were seeking at start. Pleasure, what does it take to be of a giving nature? When someone gives they get in folds. Does it really matter the sexual positions? Not really, one doesn't have to be a kamikaze to achieve satisfaction, for the most part men get the physical end, how about even after an act one leaves empty? Ah something is amiss, the mind and soul isn't there I guess.
Most people and couples are afraid of these topics or conversations as the feeling of inadequacy creeps in. Guys who are nurtured by prunes for mothers think that a girl who does the magic is a slut, when guys talk to their friends about the girl they are with in envy the friends end up labelling her.
Transformers -Optimus vs Megatron (Steve Jablonsky)
Maroon 5 - Sugar
Anthony Hamilton - Charlene
Loco in Acapulco - The Four Tops
Lil' Kim - Lighters Up
People in their prime shouldn't be shy about their sexuality, I guess having partners who prior rejected them for their inadequacies end up hurting their pride. Pride is confidence both intimately and outwardly. Guys who are confident on the outside either have a girl who minds her ways and business or he has that confidence about himself or both. There are men who stick to one person and are happy and there are those who wander yet can find it. Who can find a virtuous man?
How To Be Attractive - The Ultimate Attraction Strategy
Julio Iglesias - Caruso
L'auberge espagnole - Daft punk party
Chris Brown - Don't Think They Know ft. Aaliyah
When a guy has in his mind another woman what's the point in even trying to be attractive. When a guy poses another woman as an example to her why give a hoot? Be like another he likes? Ah come on where is originality in that?
When a girl dates guys and in the process likes what the guys like what happens is she becomes a yoyo, in being "traditionalised" people end up loosing their originality, to suit the likes of the mother, sister or another girl of his fantasy it ends up in an eventual breakup. Running after a guy that shows no appreciation in the original person ends up rubbing her off her essence.
When a guy meets a girl he likes there is always something about her that he notices while she may not know what it is, here compliments become and indicator, if there were no compliments then it becomes confusing when the connection goes, who a girl or a guy is at start is their instinctive personality. Something changes in the chemistry when outside people become the influencers on the moods of one or both persons, eventually the initial connection ends. Hiding a relationship that is starting is counterproductive as that is an indicator that one is influenced by what others think, or simply can't trust those who are around.
To be able to relate in my mind means one connects or understands the reasons certain habits exist. For instance I like to walk bare feet, if someone is insincere I turn into a beast. Half the time I work and to a point where I pass out, having a child who took all my sensual energy obliterated every need to look after mundane things.
Socialism For Dummies - part 2
Trace Adkins - Chrome
I better get busy before I turn freaky, not good for my mental stability at this moment. I am an action babe, flirt maybe good but some don't know how to read between the lines.
For those men who have low communication skills and I am not talking about grammar but their inability or unwillingness to see beyond what is said or done, women have little problem in voicing out their grievances while men seem to think that giving instruction is a method for communicating their desires. Women have no issue with talking as men succeed in pissing us off, how about when the women starts acting in a way that forces the men to speak or focus? I sure know how to drive a men crazy for their senseless acts. Act like them too, after all in the book "act like a woman think like a man" can imply be as men too, if they trick then trick, if they are straight then be straight, fire for fire, how many can stand the heat?
Speaking and talking has a distinction, to complain is easy how about explaining? The talking part is often considered nagging whereas to those who like to hear someone's point of view and can accept that that's how they think can often find a connecting or reference point to draw attention to the consequences. Most men like words so why be surprised when the woman keeps quiet "stops asking permission or seeking approval" and acts based on what signals the men are passing. Ah, I have seen the turn of that in relationships between couples and partners, surprise, surprise, those men that don't like surprises are those that want to be in control, as they are always conscious of image that they are not even prepared to sustain. When I see a person demanding what they don't invest in I turn tiger, Like I care.
What is capitalism? From a personal point of view it happens when someone gets to think they know you and proceed in acting in a manner that informs you they are about to take advantage of that, oops does it really work? I guess in my case it didn't, he thought he knew who I am, probably forgot or never knew that I can switch, that's what I call taking someone for granted, assuming that my habits informs them of who I am, what if i am doing it deliberately to ward them off? Sorry, I don't have an additive personality, that's kids not for adults who are self motivated. To have given a person consideration does not mean one can be controlled, it just means they gave a chance to lead, when they become tyrannical that lead is often taken away. In same reference on management levels; when staff listen to you and you keep putting them in trouble then they end up revolting. There are managers who like to play games with people by assuming they are dull, I have seen here where apartheid has created a culture in a group of people where behind their back they switch authentic products for fake or in the service industry submit underhanded materials which leads a business into bankruptcy and eventually an economy collapses, and please don't tell me it isn't so because when you box people to a level where to survive can mean killing someone for a penny what do you expect? Does it really pay in the end not to care for those who work to feed their family and in many cases one person works for 3 families at a time. Same it is with governments that take for granted their people.
I am a care taker by nature and deliberately stand firm on that method, should I have staff or partners that think in the hit and run manner I simply boot them out. I don't think people are dumb I explain even if I look daft in their perspective. The business that I am in is a socioeconomic enterprise which embraces communal and capital generating aspects through creating and enhancing people and businesses be it on a social or private level and sometimes that demands drastic measures.
By the way i read somewhere a company method of management was such that rather than retrenching staff they reduce the income of the top level management in order to regroup and then they get back to normal, this creates a loyalty level where everyone is responsible.
Japanese work culture
Daddy stayed in Japan for about a year or so and I guess he can tell, sure remember him telling me about the culture of interaction between people there. I am sure the samurai ways are difficult for most, for a people that live in a very small in comparison to other nations land space they don't take people for granted, i could be wrong but thats my way, honour.
The Last Samurai - Battle In The Fog
Last Samurai-Self Discipline
When someone is prepared to give their life to someone they become astute, to have honour is to be loyal to the creed of care and that makes people attentive to literary every aspect that relates to who they stand by, to care for someone is to lay one's ambitions for the other and when that is taken away the person feels extremely betrayed and can take their own life, in fact that is a prerequisite for those who are loyal. Self Betrayal is self sacrifice and sometimes those you hold dear may not care for themselves least you. To draw someone into your life and take them for a fool makes everything worth nothing so why fight hard to keep it? I am a samurai always was and always will be.
The Last Samurai fight scene in the rain
Last Samurai Battle
I have travelled a lot to various cultures and in trains most times I have conversations with people, in one of my trips to Amsterdam I faced an incident where a Dutch chap sat on my seat without any form of apology and even proceeded to speak in an underhanded manner, pointing that I should go where he directs, I didn't mind and sat on the next seat, opened my laptop and put on my music as low as possible as I didn't have my ear phones with me, only for the same person to rudely tell me to put off my music, I didn't object but that left a nasty impression on what I have come to know about the Dutch and sincerely not surprised when even the partners of peter showed same disrespect in my home. Maybe many Dutch people would hate to have such an image globally but in view of how they manage their colonies I am left with no other impression on them generally even if I have only 2 people who I have come to know as pleasant beings. Sad but the disdain is evident even in the lifestyle imprinted on the black and coloured South Africans. Sad sad sad. Sometimes i think it could be lack of confidence or guilt for the historical image or worse a total disregard to life and people, maybe Africans are also at fault for giving an impression that we are not worthy to be treated humanly for our lack of self assertiveness. Same reason i am as obstinate, they teach well how to fight back in same regard.
Braveheart - Battle of Stirling Bridge - Cavalry charge
Battles; I take a seat at a totally empty cinema hall with my kids I ask the ushers if it's ok to seat where I please, they said yes, as soon as the movie is to start in walk two white youth and proceed to tell me I am at their seat, I move away and they tell me that's not where they said I should seat, in that instant fury came over me and I stood up only for them to see that they weren't the height of my chest neither were they built to my size, in their dismay one of them proceeds to call me names in front of my kids to which Jordan reciprocated in a gentleman fashion by questioning why he spoke that way only to be buffed off, Sia proceeds in return to show courage, if i were a woos my kids will be same but i don't train them to be aggressive even if i teach them to be strong.
About 2 years prior when I just came in with them at the park behind the building where we lived, I was with them on the swings only for a black kid to walk up to the kids playing and voices out treats, the kids were afraid and men who were placed there for security stood watching, mothers were around and neither of them could move, what's left to do in such a case, where kids are frightened to death. Would I sit as a mother to allow my kids and others to be inhibited by lousy youth by lousy parents? Yes I laid the chap on his back and he left with a bruise. My question is, is this the Dutch way? Is it appropriate for adults to invite themselves as friends only to deceive and think they can get away just because I am a woman?
Now the state wants me to take my kids into a refugee camp for asylum as I went through, anyone can subject me but not my kids. The violence and abuse of desperate men when will it end? Do I have to become an abuser for people to know how to think? Just as bloody as the scenes look so it feels to a person when torn by abusers and liars who affect people.
Do indigenous people think that because foreigners have nowhere to run to that they can exhibit such acts as xenophobia? Well I guess if the rulers in Nigeria don't need their men then why have the embassies? Why lure our boys with fictitious marriage contracts in reverse showing that their own men are weak and lazy then trap them into crime by providing no jobs. Nigeria is that what your men are worth? Just because there is no adequate education does not mean that Nigerian men are disposable into crime as alternative methods for earning a living that people perpetrate.
I am asked that I be given information on what jobs are available for analysis and all I am given is crap.
Joan of Arc routing the english army
Kenny Chesney - There Goes My Life
Blake Shelton - Austin (Official Video)
What Is Karma? - The No-Bullshit Explanation Of How Karma Works
Startupsity - StartUp Your Life
Sheryl Crow - My Favorite Mistake
Mya - Case Of The Ex (Whatcha Gonna Do)
I guess we would like to believe that there is some wizard that takes up arms whereas every negative or positive intent towards the other person reverses back. if you are afraid you will act in scary ways, if you are glad you are likely to act in pleasing ways, can someone who likes someone push them away? Boomerang, what were you thinking about in the moment when you authored a word and what was the person thinking you thought and what they think about themselves in that moment, that's the complex trick that people seldom remember as their memory isn't developed to catch those milliseconds in time.
the effects of one action produces a multitude of events. Irresponsible people tend to make a mess. Harnessing ones mind? People seldom give themselves that luxury and in event becomes expensive. Life is simple, emotions produced through guilt or envy or both is dangerous to its beholder. Someone could say hello and to the other would sound as a curse, a warning could prove fatal to someone who possesses negative intentions.
To sit and judge is to find solutions to the actions of those who don't think and act in ways that affects people. why do people give themselves the right/permission to think and subsequently behave in directions to achieve their objectives? It's in the core experiences that people go through, everyone has the choice to change when the inner voice is warning them that something is out of place.
Right or wrong is a perspective that sits within an individual or a set system that seeks objectives. Right "manners" can produce bad results in the wrong circumstances or situations because the intention "principles" persons hold. Let's take for instance a situation where a woman walks into the home of her son, by etiquette prior sets an appointment for lunch with his wife, while on the phone sounds polite ignores the fact that prior she had shown what a bigot she is, the person "wife" on the other end says "do please come around", in return being polite because of her husband, at the back of her mind she knows who she is dealing with but gives regards to her age and the status she holds in her sons life, should the mother presume that because she is the mother that in the house of her son she can do and say whatever she likes by that has compromised her son in the eyes of the wife. They sit at the table and the wife serves, then she takes her place serves herself after serving others and proceeds to have her lunch, in the mean time everyone is dead silent and that silence is an indicator that the reason the mother Inlaw appeared wasn't in good will, she came to check not to enjoy her time as she presupposed over the phone, so what does the wife do? She acts as she should in her own home and left her husband and his mother to their own demise. There you have a simple depiction of what karma is like. People who are clustered can barely see what awaits. Everything has its place and time and there are those who are spiritually sent to get rid of violators.
Someone can wish to do this or do that, if the circumstances are wrong "desirable" it comes through, despite the odds the universe has a way of appropriating tasks and rewards, if in conjunction with other parties always check the facts, usually that's where even the wise get caught, what makes people think that there is no payback for actions? Carnal minds eventually mislead themselves into the trap they create for those who they envy. How accurate is an information that someone is given? What's the source? Wouldn't it make sense to try than make insinuations? How about their minds leads them to see an incomplete information that is all there? lets take a simple example like the scriptures in the bible. Why will 2 people read one and the same thing yet for one it doesn't produce results but for the other it does? don't you have the same eyes, possess the same language yet there is a difference? Where is the difference? State of heart?
Karma in simple terms is a view on the sequence of events that leads to a result. people? Do they really matter when referencing to an individuals perspective on a situation that they maybe going through? in specific how events reflect globally is only shown to certain individuals who are entrusted to hold the secrets of times and who have made the decision to remain loyal regardless of anyone. People who are able to predict or foresee are given an enormous responsibility for lives of a people be it family or a nation. Assumptions are not allowed for these individuals, should they be given fictitious information they can still see through it, lying to them is pointless. Individualistic "Self minded" persons often miss the obvious signs. There is a difference between being individualistic and being an individual even if there is a silver lining between these words. Sometimes i get frustrated with the lack of simple words to explain the dynamics of what i see.
Gregorian - Bridge over Troubled Water
FROM RUSSIA WITH LOVE (MATT MONRO) - JAMES BOND 007 .
PSquare - Bring it On [Official Video] ft. Dave Scott
It is said if you are ashamed of your father your father will be ashamed of you. If you hide your experiences then you haven't lived.
Demolition Man
How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You - What Guys Really Want
Antes de Ti, Marcela Gándara
Tupac Lord knows
Girls look pretty when with a guy that likes himself, if sexing someone depends on weight then I guess slim girls wouldn't be dumped. Most guys choose to be with a girl for comforts that reminds them of a girl in their family or in the past who they have been influenced by in a variety of areas, same it is with most girls.
Is it possible to be attracted to someone who is a stranger? Stranger isn't in terms of not knowing but what attracts them at first is an attribute they recognise/identify with in girls they had known.
There are a variety of other reasons guys chose to be with girls and it revolves around personality or for the worst part what benefit they can have in terms of her skill or financial status, guys are also materialistic towards women even if she has nothing in her bank account. To say that guys aren't materialistic towards girls would be to lie that there is no sun and moon.
How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You - What Girls Really Want
All I Am To You -Tammy Wynette & Aaron Neville (By Fred).mpg
Céline Dion - River Deep, Mountain High (Live in Las Vegas)
Not boasting but never really had an issue with attracting guys more problems in not knowing how to ward them away. Of course when girls are young there are stupid things we do just as guys.
Sure no body likes boasters for guys, that's just a jive once in a while that looks cute, and for those guys who like to boast about sleeping with girls by putting them down as a trophy, wouldn't it make sense to boast about being able to keep her than she running away? How about she didn't feel like a girl next to you which is why she didn't put much effort to keep you.
Girls have been preconditioned to demand rather than desire a guy, to be attractive as a girl requires liking yourself and by the way guys fall for compliments more than girls, well I could be wrong but what leads my thought on this is most guys feel inadequate about themselves especially in reference to who is big or thick or not, that measuring is daunting for a girl like me. There is another side to guys who feel inadequate, its that they pose a demeanour that is overly confident which can be easily deflated by ignoring them, meanwhile girls that are sassy get to have the attention. Well I seem to be daft in reference to guys or I wouldn't be where I am now.
I'd be damned if I give clues to guys on how to get a girl, more likely helping them not to fuck up while with or after a girl they had decided to be with. I am a hard nut to crack but he who knows himself sees and knows how to reach out. Guys who want a doll on the shelf will end up outside the gate.
How To Be More Confident - A Step-by-Step Process for Becoming Truly Confident
Commando (1985) - Official Trailer (Arnold Schwarzenegger)
Michael Bublé - Feeling Good [Official Music Video]
Guns N' Roses - November Rain
Confidence is quite fleeting as it mostly depends on the emotional state of a person about themselves, ask how they feel about their purpose in life, there are people who don't have all the money in the world or the best perceivably looking girl or boyfriend. The personalities we surround ourselves with can either lift or push us down, confidence is also an act of making decisions, be it on chores or in difficult moments. Those who surrender their identity to others tend to depend on others notion of themselves.
Those who care often find avenues for exhibiting that affection towards others be it family or colleagues. Selfish people tend to be needy. Those who know how or to rightly put who are willing to collaborate often know how to approach a topic or person during or throughout in conversations. A continuous conversation is a dialogue of connected souls.
Sometimes I wonder weather people confuse confidence with putting up a demeanour; with a strong face with rude/ignorant actions that is void of experience, claiming another's story as theirs yet when put to test end up loosing for not being able to defend their position through provable facts.
When it is said the meek inherit the earth doesn't it mean those who have been through life can bring solutions? I suppose in the world of dishonourable men imposing on another their rule is what counts until their own arrogance brings them down to earth. What's the point in putting up an image yet the men who surround you can't vouch for your integrity. No one is perfect and it's those imperfections that makes the difference, to hide your imperfections is to lie, if men want to see the bright side of life the ugly needs to be shown. What is ugly? I don't know, I don't care to know.
I guess in a world of wise men all are deemed crooks? Better to be notorious than in the ditch, how about that.
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