28/09/2015

Seeba knows how to groove.

Men that like to think it's an easy task to bring up children should be given a taste of it by leaving him with kids, the lazy one's will be seeking to find where the mother is, she is probably laughing her head off and there are those guys who are hoping that that will happen so that they can rid themselves of of the nag. Men who boldly take the task end up seeing that the lousy party is seeking to return. I have witnessed such in a family the turn around was that the universe sends someone who helps out. There are lousy parents on both sex types who marry for social reasons rather than what family stands for, for those status seekers I have no pity for. My dad is a strong man and a wonderful parent so I had no reason to think that men can be otherwise, I guess I was wrong.

I guess Seeba knows how to groove.

Structure of the Court System: Crash Course Government and Politics #19 
Judge Dredd - Trailer
How about taking up your own kind of justice hehe I guess I'm not made for the weak hearted.󾌩󾍔 looks like court cases are best for economic crimes rather than family feuds. Looks like those who were good become bad.


Phil Collins - I've forgotten everything 
How To Have Amazing Sex (For Women) - Drive Your Man Wild In Bed
For the most part how someone makes love shows how they feel about themselves and in return towards the other. May the Lord help them sort out their esteem issues first before claiming a position in someone's life. Inhibited persons often think they ought to be pleasured than giving, some don't even care to think of it before and after claiming that they didn't get that excitement they were seeking at start. Pleasure, what does it take to be of a giving nature? When someone gives they get in folds. Does it really matter the sexual positions? Not really, one doesn't have to be a kamikaze to achieve satisfaction, for the most part men get the physical end, how about even after an act one leaves empty? Ah something is amiss, the mind and soul isn't there I guess.

Most people and couples are afraid of these topics or conversations as the feeling of inadequacy creeps in. Guys who are nurtured by prunes for mothers think that a girl who does the magic is a slut, when guys talk to their friends about the girl they are with in envy the friends end up labelling her.

Transformers -Optimus vs Megatron (Steve Jablonsky)
Maroon 5 - Sugar
Anthony Hamilton - Charlene
Loco in Acapulco - The Four Tops
Lil' Kim - Lighters Up
People in their prime shouldn't be shy about their sexuality, I guess having partners who prior rejected them for their inadequacies end up hurting their pride. Pride is confidence both intimately and outwardly. Guys who are confident on the outside either have a girl who minds her ways and business or he has that confidence about himself or both. There are men who stick to one person and are happy and there are those who wander yet can find it. Who can find a virtuous man?

How To Be Attractive - The Ultimate Attraction Strategy
Julio Iglesias - Caruso
L'auberge espagnole - Daft punk party
Chris Brown - Don't Think They Know ft. Aaliyah
When a guy has in his mind another woman what's the point in even trying to be attractive. When a guy poses another woman as an example to her why give a hoot? Be like another he likes? Ah come on where is originality in that?

When a girl dates guys and in the process likes what the guys like what happens is she becomes a yoyo, in being  "traditionalised" people end up loosing their originality, to suit the likes of the mother, sister or another girl of his fantasy it ends up in an eventual breakup. Running after a guy that shows no appreciation in the original person ends up rubbing her off her essence.

When a guy meets a girl he likes there is always something about her that he notices while she may not know what it is, here compliments become and indicator, if there were no compliments then it becomes confusing when the connection goes, who a girl or a guy is at start is their instinctive personality. Something changes in the chemistry when outside people become the influencers on the moods of one or both persons, eventually the initial connection ends. Hiding a relationship that is starting is counterproductive as that is an indicator that one is influenced by what others think, or simply can't trust those who are around.

To be able to relate in my mind means one connects or understands the reasons certain habits exist. For instance I like to walk bare feet, if someone is insincere I turn into a beast. Half the time I work and to a point where I pass out, having a child who took all my sensual energy obliterated every need to look after mundane things.

Socialism For Dummies - part 2
Trace Adkins - Chrome
I better get busy before I turn freaky, not good for my mental stability at this moment. I am an action babe, flirt maybe good but some don't know how to read between the lines.

For those men who have low communication skills and I am not talking about grammar but their inability or unwillingness to see beyond what is said or done, women have little problem in voicing out their grievances while men seem to think that giving instruction is a method for communicating their desires. Women have no issue with talking as men succeed in pissing us off, how about when the women starts acting in a way that forces the men to speak or focus? I sure know how to drive a men crazy for their senseless acts. Act like them too, after all in the book "act like a woman think like a man" can imply be as men too, if they trick then trick, if they are straight then be straight, fire for fire, how many can stand the heat?

Speaking and talking has a distinction, to complain is easy how about explaining? The talking part is often considered nagging whereas to those who like to hear someone's point of view and can accept that that's how they think can often find a connecting or reference point to draw attention to the consequences. Most men like words so why be surprised when the woman keeps quiet "stops asking permission or seeking approval" and acts based on what signals the men are passing. Ah, I have seen the turn of that in relationships between couples and partners, surprise, surprise, those men that don't like surprises are those that want to be in control, as they are always conscious of image that they are not even prepared to sustain. When I see a person demanding what they don't invest in I turn tiger, Like I care.

What is capitalism? From a personal point of view it happens when someone gets to think they know you and proceed in acting in a manner that informs you they are about to take advantage of that, oops does it really work? I guess in my case it didn't, he thought he knew who I am, probably forgot or never knew that I can switch, that's what I call taking someone for granted, assuming that my habits informs them of who I am, what if i am doing it deliberately to ward them off? Sorry, I don't have an additive personality, that's kids not for adults who are self motivated. To have given a person consideration does not mean one can be controlled, it just means they gave a chance to lead, when they become tyrannical that lead is often taken away. In same reference on management levels; when staff listen to you and you keep putting them in trouble then they end up revolting. There are managers who like to play games with people by assuming they are dull, I have seen here where apartheid has created a culture in a group of people where behind their back they switch authentic products for fake or in the service industry submit underhanded materials which leads a business into bankruptcy and eventually an economy collapses, and please don't tell me it isn't so because when you box people to a level where to survive can mean killing someone for a penny what do you expect? Does it really pay in the end not to care for those who work to feed their family and in many cases one person works for 3 families at a time. Same it is with governments that take for granted their people.

I am a care taker by nature and deliberately stand firm on that method, should I have staff or partners that think in the hit and run manner I simply boot them out. I don't think people are dumb I explain even if I look daft in their perspective. The business that I am in is a socioeconomic enterprise which embraces communal and capital generating aspects through creating and enhancing people and businesses be it on a social or private level and sometimes that demands drastic measures.

By the way i read somewhere a company method of management was such that rather than retrenching staff they reduce the income of the top level management in order to regroup and then they get back to normal, this creates a loyalty level where everyone is responsible.

Japanese work culture
Daddy stayed in Japan for about a year or so and I guess he can tell, sure remember him telling me about the culture of interaction between people there. I am sure the samurai ways are difficult for most, for a people that live in a very small in comparison to other nations land space they don't take people for granted, i could be wrong but thats my way, honour.

Where time is of essence people tend to rush but on the long run it can prove detrimental to what the western world considers as building long term business relationships, in some cases that isn't needed especially when people understand each other from half a word or by gesture. Ever wonder why some relationships work? They are in-tune, their values are similar. When persons in a relationship get along internally on the outside they seldom quarrel, if there is a fight they know what's going on or what needs done. Precision? The drill? I suppose undisciplined people don't know what is right and what is wrong. My reason for succeeding at things I do with or without people is because I had painstakingly planned all in mind through visualising as well as repetition while babysitting my kids and the adults around, those who like busy bodies took me to be a lazy person. I suppose I keep surprising people, well that's because while they are busy focusing on trivial things I concentrate my mind on crucial aspects, which leaves me to edit later by adding aspects previously unnoticed.

The Last Samurai - Battle In The Fog
Last Samurai-Self Discipline
When someone is prepared to give their life to someone they become astute, to have honour is to be loyal to the creed of care and that makes people attentive to literary every aspect that relates to who they stand by, to care for someone is to lay one's ambitions for the other and when that is taken away the person feels extremely betrayed and can take their own life, in fact that is a prerequisite for those who are loyal. Self Betrayal is self sacrifice and sometimes those you hold dear may not care for themselves least you. To draw someone into your life and take them for a fool makes everything worth nothing so why fight hard to keep it? I am a samurai always was and always will be.


The Last Samurai fight scene in the rain
Last Samurai Battle
I have travelled a lot to various cultures and in trains most times I have conversations with people, in one of my trips to Amsterdam I faced an incident where a Dutch chap sat on my seat without any form of apology and even proceeded to speak in an underhanded manner, pointing that I should go where he directs, I didn't mind and sat on the next seat, opened my laptop and put on my music as low as possible as I didn't have my ear phones with me, only for the same person to rudely tell me to put off my music, I didn't object but that left a nasty impression on what I have come to know about the Dutch and sincerely not surprised when even the partners of peter showed same disrespect in my home. Maybe many Dutch people would hate to have such an image globally but in view of how they manage their colonies I am left with no other impression on them generally even if I have only 2 people who I have come to know as pleasant beings. Sad but the disdain is evident even in the lifestyle imprinted on the black and coloured South Africans. Sad sad sad. Sometimes i think it could be lack of confidence or guilt for the historical image or worse a total disregard to life and people, maybe Africans are also at fault for giving an impression that we are not worthy to be treated humanly for our lack of self assertiveness. Same reason i am as obstinate, they teach well how to fight back in same regard.

Braveheart - Battle of Stirling Bridge - Cavalry charge
Battles; I take a seat at a totally empty cinema hall with my kids I ask the ushers if it's ok to seat where I please, they said yes, as soon as the movie is to start in walk two white youth and proceed to tell me I am at their seat, I move away and they tell me that's not where they said I should seat, in that instant fury came over me and I stood up only for them to see that they weren't the height of my chest neither were they built to my size, in their dismay one of them proceeds to call me names in front of my kids to which Jordan reciprocated in a gentleman fashion by questioning why he spoke that way only to be buffed off, Sia proceeds in return to show courage, if i were a woos my kids will be same but i don't train them to be aggressive even if i teach them to be strong.

About 2 years prior when I just came in with them at the park behind the building where we lived, I was with them on the swings only for a black kid to walk up to the kids playing and voices out treats, the kids were afraid and men who were placed there for security stood watching, mothers were around and neither of them could move, what's left to do in such a case, where kids are frightened to death. Would I sit as a mother to allow my kids and others to be inhibited by lousy youth by lousy parents? Yes I laid the chap on his back and he left with a bruise. My question is, is this the Dutch way? Is it appropriate for adults to invite themselves as friends only to deceive and think they can get away just because I am a woman?

Now the state wants me to take my kids into a refugee camp for asylum as I went through, anyone can subject me but not my kids. The violence and abuse of desperate men when will it end? Do I have to become an abuser for people to know how to think? Just as bloody as the scenes look so it feels to a person when torn by abusers and liars who affect people.

Do indigenous people think that because foreigners have nowhere to run to that they can exhibit such acts as xenophobia? Well I guess if the rulers in Nigeria don't need their men then why have the embassies? Why lure our boys with fictitious marriage contracts in reverse showing that their own men are weak and lazy then trap them into crime by providing no jobs. Nigeria is that what your men are worth? Just because there is no adequate education does not mean that Nigerian men are disposable into crime as alternative methods for earning a living that people perpetrate.

I am asked that I be given information on what jobs are available for analysis and all I am given is crap.

Joan of Arc routing the english army
Kenny Chesney - There Goes My Life
Blake Shelton - Austin (Official Video)
It's quite evident what men have turned their nations into. I suppose to be a leader of men is to call upon oneself loathing.

What Is Karma? - The No-Bullshit Explanation Of How Karma Works
Startupsity - StartUp Your Life
Sheryl Crow - My Favorite Mistake
Mya - Case Of The Ex (Whatcha Gonna Do)
I guess we would like to believe that there is some wizard that takes up arms whereas every negative or positive intent towards the other person reverses back. if you are afraid you will act in scary ways, if you are glad you are likely to act in pleasing ways, can someone who likes someone push them away? Boomerang, what were you thinking about in the moment when you authored a word and what was the person thinking you thought and what they think about themselves in that moment, that's the complex trick that people seldom remember as their memory isn't developed to catch those milliseconds in time.

the effects of one action produces a multitude of events. Irresponsible people tend to make a mess. Harnessing ones mind? People seldom give themselves that luxury and in event becomes expensive. Life is simple, emotions produced through guilt or envy or both is dangerous to its beholder. Someone could say hello and to the other would sound as a curse, a warning could prove fatal to someone who possesses negative intentions.

To sit and judge is to find solutions to the actions of those who don't think and act in ways that affects people. why do people give themselves the right/permission to think and subsequently behave in directions to achieve their objectives? It's in the core experiences that people go through, everyone has the choice to change when the inner voice is warning them that something is out of place.

Right or wrong is a perspective that sits within an individual or a set system that seeks objectives. Right "manners" can produce bad results in the wrong circumstances or situations because the intention "principles" persons hold. Let's take for instance a situation where a woman walks into the home of her son, by etiquette prior sets an appointment for lunch with his wife, while on the phone sounds polite ignores the fact that prior she had shown what a bigot she is, the person "wife" on the other end says "do please come around", in return being polite because of her husband, at the back of her mind she knows who she is dealing with but gives regards to her age and the status she holds in her sons life, should the mother presume that because she is the mother that in the house of her son she can do and say whatever she likes by that has compromised her son in the eyes of the wife. They sit at the table and the wife serves, then she takes her place serves herself after serving others and proceeds to have her lunch, in the mean time everyone is dead silent and that silence is an indicator that the reason the mother Inlaw appeared wasn't in good will, she came to check not to enjoy her time as she presupposed over the phone, so what does the wife do? She acts as she should in her own home and left her husband and his mother to their own demise. There you have a simple depiction of what karma is like. People who are clustered can barely see what awaits. Everything has its place and time and there are those who are spiritually sent to get rid of violators.

Someone can wish to do this or do that, if the circumstances are wrong "desirable" it comes through, despite the odds the universe has a way of appropriating tasks and rewards, if in conjunction with other parties always check the facts, usually that's where even the wise get caught, what makes people think that there is no payback for actions? Carnal minds eventually mislead themselves into the trap they create for those who they envy. How accurate is an information that someone is given? What's the source? Wouldn't it make sense to try than make insinuations? How about their minds leads them to see an incomplete information that is all there? lets take a simple example like the scriptures in the bible. Why will  2 people read one and the same thing yet for one it doesn't produce results but for the other it does? don't you have the same eyes, possess the same language yet there is a difference? Where is the difference? State of heart?

Karma in simple terms is a view on the sequence of events that leads to a result. people? Do they really matter when referencing to an individuals perspective on a situation that they maybe going through? in specific how events reflect globally is only shown to certain individuals who are entrusted to hold the secrets of times and who have made the decision to remain loyal regardless of anyone. People who are able to predict or foresee are given an enormous responsibility for lives of a people be it family or a nation. Assumptions are not allowed for these individuals, should they be given fictitious information they can still see through it, lying to them is pointless. Individualistic "Self minded" persons often miss the obvious signs. There is a difference between being individualistic and being an individual even if there is a silver lining between these words. Sometimes i get frustrated with the lack of simple words to explain the dynamics of what i see.

Gregorian - Bridge over Troubled Water 
When it's said by Nigerians that Nigerians don't have discipline it means we adopt and accept crap that others shove at us then turn around to lynch those who set us straight, when we are setting straight we have spineless creatures for citizens who plot to remove persons who do try using military regimes as an excuse to grab the sidings that haven't even sprung ie we ship our bright heads away by frustrating their efforts and then what? We allow persons turn our lands into a whorish zone, no one puts up a fight and when one does the gorillas start calling me to tell me to be afraid and to warn my family members they should not fight, ha, I guess it's the way we want it that we have it the way it is.

FROM RUSSIA WITH LOVE (MATT MONRO) - JAMES BOND 007 .
PSquare - Bring it On [Official Video] ft. Dave Scott
For those who are aspiring leaders weather your family has money or not to have near accurate information about what solutions to deliver it helps going through life situations, how it feels for others in their moments and helps to design what they need. Technical skills is a support base for reference but life experiences teaches people how to lead others should they have within a clean mind, if you find a way show others, the more effective the message or efficient a design the greater the possibility in embracing more than just a few. The crime rate is as a result of those who withhold dear to life information, no one is saying that one should give without gaining from technical knowledge but life experiences shouldn't be hidden as that takes advantage of the generations to come, religious scriptures are void of details which is why people refer to it as fables but even through them clues are available for those who seek to test and present their findings.

It is said if you are ashamed of your father your father will be ashamed of you. If you hide your experiences then you haven't lived.

Demolition Man 
How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You - What Guys Really Want
Antes de Ti, Marcela Gándara
Tupac Lord knows
Girls look pretty when with a guy that likes himself, if sexing someone depends on weight then I guess slim girls wouldn't be dumped. Most guys choose to be with a girl for comforts that reminds them of a girl in their family or in the past who they have been influenced by in a variety of areas, same it is with most girls.

Is it possible to be attracted to someone who is a stranger? Stranger isn't in terms of not knowing but what attracts them at first is an attribute they recognise/identify with in girls they had known.

In reference to guys who have been married before they are either looking for what was lost or someone that is totally different from what they had known or had been through this doesn't eliminate not having issues as every shoe needs to be worn through the more rigid the material the more blisters. This is often a rebound area and quite dangerous. In experience, guys who go for what is a mystery seldom do they look for what they had known as they would have stayed with who they met prior. This is an opinion based on my past and previous relationships. By the way as a mixed girl who lived in a country of white men I was a stranger as my colour, complexion and stature is considerably different from that of the white and black girls, this isn't to say that there are no white guys who aren't attracted but now mainly for my mental rather than my physical attributes; iu have had enough of being with guys who only saw my person as a tool.

There are a variety of other reasons guys chose to be with girls and it revolves around personality or for the worst part what benefit they can have in terms of her skill or financial status, guys are also materialistic towards women even if she has nothing in her bank account. To say that guys aren't materialistic towards girls would be to lie that there is no sun and moon.

How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You - What Girls Really Want
All I Am To You -Tammy Wynette & Aaron Neville (By Fred).mpg
Céline Dion - River Deep, Mountain High (Live in Las Vegas)
Not boasting but never really had an issue with attracting guys more problems in not knowing how to ward them away. Of course when girls are young there are stupid things we do just as guys.

Sure no body likes boasters for guys, that's just a jive once in a while that looks cute, and for those guys who like to boast about sleeping with girls by putting them down as a trophy, wouldn't it make sense to boast about being able to keep her than she running away? How about she didn't feel like a girl next to you which is why she didn't put much effort to keep you.

Girls have been preconditioned to demand rather than desire a guy, to be attractive as a girl requires liking yourself and by the way guys fall for compliments more than girls, well I could be wrong but what leads my thought on this is most guys feel inadequate about themselves especially in reference to who is big or thick or not, that measuring is daunting for a girl like me. There is another side to guys who feel inadequate, its that they pose a demeanour that is overly confident which can be easily deflated by ignoring them, meanwhile girls that are sassy get to have the attention. Well I seem to be daft in reference to guys or I wouldn't be where I am now.

I'd be damned if I give clues to guys on how to get a girl, more likely helping them not to fuck up while with or after a girl they had decided to be with. I am a hard nut to crack but he who knows himself sees and knows how to reach out. Guys who want a doll on the shelf will end up outside the gate.󾌩󾠣

How To Be More Confident - A Step-by-Step Process for Becoming Truly Confident
Commando (1985) - Official Trailer (Arnold Schwarzenegger)
Michael Bublé - Feeling Good [Official Music Video]
Guns N' Roses - November Rain
Confidence is quite fleeting as it mostly depends on the emotional state of a person about themselves, ask how they feel about their purpose in life, there are people who don't have all the money in the world or the best perceivably looking girl or boyfriend. The personalities we surround ourselves with can either lift or push us down, confidence is also an act of making decisions, be it on chores or in difficult moments. Those who surrender their identity to others tend to depend on others notion of themselves.

Those who care often find avenues for exhibiting that affection towards others be it family or colleagues. Selfish people tend to be needy. Those who know how or to rightly put who are willing to collaborate often know how to approach a topic or person during or throughout in conversations. A continuous conversation is a dialogue of connected souls.

Sometimes I wonder weather people confuse confidence with putting up a demeanour; with a strong face with rude/ignorant actions that is void of experience, claiming another's story as theirs yet when put to test end up loosing for not being able to defend their position through provable facts.

When it is said the meek inherit the earth doesn't it mean those who have been through life can bring solutions? I suppose in the world of dishonourable men imposing on another their rule is what counts until their own arrogance brings them down to earth. What's the point in putting up an image yet the men who surround you can't vouch for your integrity. No one is perfect and it's those imperfections that makes the difference, to hide your imperfections is to lie, if men want to see the bright side of life the ugly needs to be shown. What is ugly? I don't know, I don't care to know.

I guess in a world of wise men all are deemed crooks? Better to be notorious than in the ditch, how about that.

Ring ding dunk.

Dr. Dre - Ring Ding Dong
Dr. Dre - Still D.R.E. ft. Snoop Dogg
Dr. Dre - Kush ft. Snoop Dogg, Akon
I am interested to know when a guy is seen not to take care of his fathers property what does that say about the relationship between father and son, what does it speak when a girl doesn't take care of her siblings wives and kids?

Situation: I am ringing on heads. What does a guy seek when he speaks rudely to the relations of a girl who had supported him only in the bid to gain advantage? He storms out of the house stays outside, he is looking for an opportunity to dump his fiancée and child by assaulting her in front of the auntie, because the parents rejected his advances to marry her. Her parents put her in a situation by rejecting him now he takes advantage of the situation to justify his actions. Need clues a girl of mine is going through this, should she be taken back he will repeat with his daughter what his father did to him. This is a currently undergoing situation. The blasted parents who have prejudice may not be wrong but their actions are perpetrating the events to turn into reality. What I did to the parents is to hold them hard on their ingratitude to life for having a daughter who is hardworking and independent.

This is something I don't understand in the neighbourhoods why would parents start laying claim to a child they didn't bring up even if they physically gave birth to them? If I am responsible for youth development wouldn't a level of terror be imposed on daft parents to sit-up?

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2Pac - Hit 'Em Up (Dirty) (Official Video)
Anogiri-Na U Know
PSquare - Collabo [Official Video] ft. Don Jazzy
ANOGIRI ( U THINK SAY U KNOW ME)
PSquare - Shekini [Official Video]
anogiri - oyibo
D'Banj - Oliver Twist
Joe Cocker - You Can Leave Your Hat On 
If the Imigration laws are set to prevent centralisation/clustering in cities and developed countries, why do governments in underdeveloped countries not create work opportunities by realising youth aspirations in the suburbs? Why create a bottle neck then trap people in the never ending cycle pushing them into crime?


Magic is energy, a will to fulfil a desire. If a word appeals to the intent of a person then it works, information and experiences influence how people think, it really doesn't matter much what someone says but what they do predisposes an event to come through. There is no doubt that our Creator gives favour but people must earn their right for that favour to be sustained, even I work for my knowledge to increase, I don't see why people who are lazy are to be granted their wishes for nothing. The mental development and the state of the people's hearts makes up for what happens, we are all responsible for the countries we live in both people and their government. Dull government is dull economy, dull people promote dull people into governments who in return end up tyrannical/terrible  methods of management.

For someone to use the gun it took someone to invent it, and an ass to put it in someone's mind.

Bastille - Pompeii
OneRepublic - Counting Stars
If guys are speaking about what's going on in the hoods what are the girls doing to stop the nonsense?

Pompeii: The Mystery of the People Frozen in Time -
askalsu: Why do women make men comfortable?
askalsu: Why are you who you are?
askalsu: Civil rights in Niger Delta posed as jungle justice!
When horrific events happen people are moved by fear to denny the event, when explored, one usually is able to prevent such from happening again. Should governments not listen to the songs of time they are likely to patronise such events.

People and countries that aren't conscious of their deeds and policies end up like Sodom and Ghomorah. The Jews keep making films about the holocaust what makes societies and governments perpetrate such atrocities and think that they will attract foreign investors? Stupidity on behalf of governments who think only about resources end up focusing on areas that gives them what they want, leaving a land destitute people isolated while the pollution breeds decease. If people think that the history of Pompeii is about sex I will ask that people check again.

People only end up in disaster when they hide the bad and show only the good. To be objective is to have knowledge of the bad and good. Xenophobic and terror attacks happen for similar reasons, if i am terror then so be it.

What's the point in having a dialogue with people who have ulterior motives? Yea don't pacify/trick and you end up in the morgue. So much for people asking that someone shouldn't develop their senses and sense when faced with an animal/angry/greedy persons. Let someone come and tell me that lying and deceiving an enemy is wrong.

When someone says this is what we want help them find solutions, when someone says this is what you should do argue with them.

Principles in the Good Samaritan, look to the opposite direction when told to look at a point, check before believing every story or instruction.

If asked to go only in one direction with a stranger take a friend.

To be cool has 2 sides body posture and ways of expression, is it ego speaking or ego acting? when people tell you you are nothing speak to them by asking why, that defuses the animalistic projection of superiority.

Most people want to feel bigger than others let them be to fight another day. What's the point in trying to prove to guys who have no self esteem that they have none. Yeah you the shit! that's a common way that most guys would like to believe, want to save a friend put him or her down so they don't become arrogant and end up in a mess in future. Friends don't sit and massage each other's ego, they are usually blunt to each other especially in public.

Imagine Dragons - I Bet My Life
OneRepublic - I Lived
It amasses me when I sit with guys who talk business and in the process of negotiation when they feel they are loosing claim to have a family to take care of to a single mother who is taking care of her family, I mean come on who is going to perform at a higher level? The guy who is given and supported or a girl who is totally on her own, do people ever realise what moves a girl to succeed in a supposedly mans world? Women have toned their desire to succeed not because they aren't as equally ambitious but because they don't need the unnecessary physical violence that men use when they see they are loosing. If you can't find men who want to work then why think women are manipulatable?

OneRepublic - Good Life
The Script - Hall of Fame ft. will.i.am
The Script - Talk You Down
Maroon 5 - One More Night
2 people could travel to a place yet they will see 2 different opportunities, one may come back with nothing while the other with loads of gifts. By what principles people live is the opportunities they see.

Custom Knight rider intro 1 - Classic
THE A TEAM - (2010 Main Theme Song)
Charlie's Angels Reunited at Emmys 2006
Thunder in Paradise "Intro"
When parents spend their time in miserable jobs and in the process scorn their kids for it one wouldn't need so much effort and time trying to lift hearts up. Others end up taking advantage of your kids because you as a parent spend their life time in institutions yet left uneducated by being rubbed off an identity at youth, same effect happens when overly pampered that they can't see their ego is leading them into loosing out on collaborative works. Why should strangers advantage takers think they have  dominion over someone's soul? That's the tactics of bullies, they are a variety of ways in dealing with them. Know yourself, know the terrain/duty/job/skill, and know the weaknesses that is expressed revealed in the manner of behaviour with or between themselves.

Bastille - Things We Lost In The Fire
Imagine Dragons - Demons (Official)
When you shut someone down why expect them to be open?

Justin Timberlake - Mirrors
Justin Timberlake - Cry Me A River
Nelly Furtado - Say It Right
How can tomorrow be a mystery when information is available in history? People don't pay attention to events so they can't see what may or may not happen.

Probabilities? Check the principles people live by and it's easy to know what's to be. Yeah my love life is like that of my father, loosing someone who claimed to love him, I did spend my time knowing why that happened. I only wished he didn't give her so much of himself because of his kids and in return for his pain gave a man her all but ended up in the same pot.

A girl that adores her dad and men in her family is likely to sacrifice her self, it pays not to hold one's men so high in esteem. Their pain becomes hers.

Игорь Тальков: "Господа демократы"!
Игорь Тальков. 1991 год. Бал сатаны 
Knight Rider 1982 - 2008
Unlike Russia where a family can leave in relative harmony as people have jobs, in Nigeria or for the most part in Africa family falling apart is as a result that there are those who separate people because they are after someone's wallet or skill to survive, so they pretty much don't care if they are messing with lives. There you have the effects of what economic crises creates. When housewives are busy they don't have the time mingling in other's affairs.

What is promiscuity? Is it unfulfilled aspirations due to not having a focused mind or is it the conventional thought men have labelling women prostitutes that they themselves corrupt?

A girl that has a wonderful sex life yet knows what she is doing is envied more than the guy who has nothing to show for effort yet has many baby mamas and no home to call his. What a life, people are more interested in who I am sleeping with than what's going on in their lives, yep lets poke on each other and see where that leads to.

Capitalism and Socialism: Crash Course World History #33
There is no way that someone who has a capitalistic mind wouldn't bank on others ignorance so most times they lie to take advantage sooner or later stocks get depleted because there is no production or production is diverted into other markets.

Socialism is also hard to sustain as most people have a singular orientation to life evolving through generational gap, greed or if I lightly put it natures innately built hunger to survive when not controlled ends up becoming capitalistic in nurture, (through in depth knowledge of people by people "quite a way to put it referencing the experience of bad behaviour with people who have no  principles). The subliminal factors are often overlooked by those who don't want to deal with issues assuming it's unnecessary hassle to them.

Communism can turn into slavery when time isn't rationed between family chores and intimacy lacking which affects work productivity, it's a  metrics a combination of stimuli sourced from without than from within. There are persons who live off of others work which is ok but on the long run leaves many dull as the stimuli for self assertiveness is rubbed off by being either not their innate source or by having an overly controlling nature through nurture within the family unit, individuality ceases to exist when spirituality is eliminated.

In business management and leadership the principles in the above named forms the policies and procedures for opportunity development and entrepreneurial skills developing in each person who chooses to be an individual "ego tripping here". Jiving my soliloqui, Need to think it through to manage the setbacks of logic in the momentum and available resources could be depleting. Like I give a hoot what people think of me through what I say. No follow me o, you go loss. My ways aren't ways of men, I think in dimensions so wait for the songs to give you the tones in which I speak. Debate no easy. choose the emphasis that speaks to your individual intensives. In the spirit so may sound disjointed.

Socialism For Dummies.
† Игорь Тальков — Родина моя, ты сошла с ума
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Игорь Тальков - Россия
Democrats are socialists, it's like the advertisers for political reformation agendas. How profitable is it to announce plans? How viable are those plans? So there are those who would criticise and those who defend their positions, pick what you like and use it but don't come blaming anyone that it wasn't useful after you've tasted the meal on the menus and say you wouldn't pay. Monkey de work baboon de chop? Doesn't work on the long run, more like an opportunistic view on those who like to hit and run, some get trapped, all those freebies? Ah a business tactic in creating leads. 󾌩😇

To put a black or white man on the post of president only to appease the masses may lead to a disaster. Who can perform? is it who has institutional qualifications or who has life/job experience?

Africans are by culture socialists only jobless so they end up capitalising on each and others ignorance. Projects are a solution to starting up and in the process it forms the communal approach to negotiating between each other and exchanging skills but this would require that each individual should self educate themselves and government deals with technical skills in the hard core areas, this way there may be no systemic brainwashing of people while still having an identity both individually and culture wise. This requires a wide reach for telecommunications and broadcasting for people nationwide to see what others have come up with, and hopefully collaborate as a network or on singular basis.

For the most part egomaniacs kill any system as their desire to be omnipotent turns them into violent beings. Sad that they can't focus that ego on their specific skills at work, beggars for recognition with blood on their hands.

In a world of liers who speaks their mind is considered crazy, someone can shoot me for what I say because their supposed secrets that they didn't give is rubbed off it's mystery. What is mystery? Simplifying what is widely known yet no one looks deep enough to reproduce knowledge. What a world of desperate men.

Who are marksists politically? Those who can't see what their irrational acts create on the long run, who take up an ideology as a given rule rather than exploring the deficiencies in each thought. I ask to be criticised.

For business persons who mark costs they often count as pennies useful experience as nothing for the sake of a fleeting Image. There you have my opinion on the negative side to capitalistic minds hiding behind social niceties.

I guess a girl in her 20's only has a pussy to offer and to be bedded. And a woman in her 30's to be chunked off as useless because she had kids for a bigot. I am still wondering how many girls were murdered in this manner yet men hope to have a better society, there will be nothing but darkness when women are reduced to the state of tools.

Next time people label a girl as an idealist they shouldn't confuse her optimism to be of no experience, much hugs to ya'll󾌩😈😇

Sometimes I de wonda weda Nija men tink say dem fit make Russian babe drink sote dem self go enta unda table. My papa train me well. 󾌩😎😇󾌧󾮟󾠣 any one wants blow jobs, solo de my side, Egbe wa woven, dem neva see who de work who de groove.

I wan yab, e be like say Jameston de worry me, Wen I de look how babes go load dem plate leave chop to de waste, na my mony, I de wonda weda na for for aje, reach house dem de wallop watin no de frige, the forming for black pepo mata no easy. I feel sorry for black man way de follow nyash like say dem neva see body. Kai awa boys no now beta tin until e don go.

What are mothers doing? Calling and disrupting in favour of the gal.

Cutlass - Timaya ft. 2 Solo & Wrecoba (Official Music Video) | Official Timaya
Sean Paul - Like Glue [OFFICIAL VIDEO]
Timaya -God I Beg
Sean Paul - Press It Up (Broadcast Version)
I de chop Owo who wan join me? Kai plantain no de grow for souti. Way bush no de plantain no go grow, at least cocoyam and yam de.

The Temptations - Soul To Soul
The Temptations - I Wonder Who She's Seeing Now
Most times productive collaborations are made in groups, and they stay on top of the charts for long because the combination of experiences makes the sounds richer, and there are those who as a single person can produce more. What helps is knowledge derived from interacting with people and things. Memories are treasures, to lay them off is to loose the source of inspiration. How much can one do depends on will for the most part of it, the other is of course money but that can be replaced with simple craft skills and creative imagination.

I Stand Accused (Long Version) - Isaac Hayes
Isaac Hayes - By The Time I Get To Phoenix 
Today I nearly lost touch with my Zen momentum, thank God he is faithful. It can be very scary for a creative person to loose that touch with self, in my case what helps is the abundance of research materials that I find on the net or even in the streets. I know at some point I may not find topics for conversation but then I remember that even the dullest of subjects can be enhanced if one looks through them long enough.

As much as daddy was tight fisted with money he would on occasions leave his wallet, as a girl I needed petty cash for my little dirty girly habits 󾰀󾌩 well not really dirty just things girls do like making my hair and nails and dad never really understood these things so instead of asking him he would leave some change in his wallet and I'd take them but never all, daddy and his tricks, I always knew without being told what's allowed and what wasn't, he sure showed it in example, a man of few words had made a stealth for a daughter, he hates talking about petty expenses, with him it's either jokes, parables or heavy discuss, he never spent time talking about others which allowed us focus on ourselves.

Why are we in Decline - Cultural Marxism
Любэ Давай за
Frank Sinatra - Witchcraft - Fifty Shades Of Grey
The O'Jays - Stairway To Heaven 
The O'Jays - Forever Mine
The Temptations - My Girl
Ben E. King - Stand by me
 Somewhere over the Rainbow - Israel "IZ" Kamakawiwoʻole
Joyful Noise (2012) Movie Trailer 
askalsu: The Aha should become a Waw!
If there is anything for sure I know is that as a woman in my home the noise of the social dogmas don't work on anything and more so on how I should be as a wife or mother.

People who try to figure me out most times think that I have what psychologist call personality disorder, they fail to see that the varying duties I have, has nothing to do with me being a woman, if i am surrounded by trouble makers whats left to do or be?

Depending on who I am with or what I am doing I always keep in mind my duty first, that may not suit some however if they chose to bring out the woman then they shouldn't burden me with their extracurricular family crap, my personality as a woman/person which is social duty in reference to specifics is exhibited when I am at work and even then if I am speaking with the young I use the mother sister like approach, if with the old I am a grandchild persona.

I have also chosen how I speak with women, there counselling becomes the method for addressing the issues they bring towards me, with guys I am a G, they don't need anymore temptations that my physical appearance does without me even trying, I am pretty yes not to many however I have had enough to last me a lifetime of jealousy experiences, I don't see a reason why I have to change for anyone to feel more important than the other, i am blind that way, men that get it wrong with me are those who want to make a harlot out of me, I am well capable of that myself without needing to be controlled. I blow hot and cold when they don't get the message clear that everyone needs their space from time to time.

When I tell a guy I need to stay back at my place it means he needs a breather too, to decide who he wants to be with, I am not oblivious of the fact that when people are with each other intensely for a period of time that priorities become blurry, being single and needing to sort bills out imply's networking is demanded and i don't take money from men, some think I need my space to be with friends which isn't entirely wrong but who ever I am dating also needs their time for what ever it is they do to clear their mind and come back renewed. Have seen and been through the relationships in my family to know when what is appropriate and when not.

It's quite basic why sexual revolution is taking place and in my opinion it better happen faster and more furious than what it took in the period of human evolution. Sex and work go hand in hand, how to recognise why men and women become aggressive at work is when intimacy is none existent, men literarily become dull, sex is a release from physical tension, yes there are alternative methods for achieving release, I am honestly grateful to my x mother Inlaw who wouldn't even pull her socks at home for helping her son become duller. It may sound wonderful when someone talks about being prim and proper but what is the backlash? Prostitution increases in societies where men are starved of intimacy and in return other people's daughters end up being prey to hungry eyes.

the reason for the outbursts against religious dogmas is that it has breed aggressive individuals, it is no secret, it's widely seen through the history of the crusaders, same with the jihad. Most angry men pick up guns, just like those youth who end up gunning down their fellow students, guys are taking their life when a girlfriend/lover dumps them, and please let's discuss the root cause to violence not painting it with bogus theological or psychological terminologies used by persons who are trying to look politically correct.

The more women who behave like nuns the worse the society gets "envy", when men aren't educated they also become abusive "jealousy".

Parents can help transform the educational curriculum by going on the Internet and choosing what subjects and topics they would like their children to know about as well as providing their reason for it.

In my mind art, sports and theatre should come first while maths, sciences and linguistics "grammar" is fused automatically through projects. This means there is no overhead class but students choosing their own classes, which leaves teachers to being spontaneous as the array of questions asked by the students and the feedback gotten from the teacher becomes a two way street.

The old system of education dictated the information and format which created and still perpetrates the existence of people who can't think and can not make decisions for themselves. My question is; is a system put in place to breed workers or is it to help persons become self sufficient and in return cultivating a nation into being able to sustain itself from within.

Clearly to me it's obvious that I am a self starter even if I was seen to be headless by the standards of the system then, today I am giving out what I suffered for through out my youth and half of my adult life by those who couldn't comprehend that the economic crises is as a result of their slave mentality now.

What the business sector today is suffering from is undedicated, dependent, increatively minded persons, having these soft skills cultivates a professional by the person him/herself. If economies are sustained through innovation and recycling of old into better then why have boundaries in thought? Why say no to a kid all his or her life then later scorn them for not being able to see outside the box!.

If it's such a task to raise kids why push people into having them, why no help in preparing young adults into parenthood? Why middle in their intimacy and break their bond?

Governments provide structure to the desires of the people, I would presume that those who the people elect are informing their whoever in whatever to bring solutions and have the right to question by giving feedback on what works and what doesn't for them. Well I guess when all people think on Election Day is to chop and go then don't complain why they starve through out the tenor.

In my understanding a law is a procedure, policies are based on behavioural patterns of a people, so if there are crooks all over why be surprised when a system is labeled tyrannical or are tyrannical policies set to protect dull people?

Limited experience limits the use of language or grammar. Words that are in existence today are based on the experiences people who structured them had then about life in interaction with people and professional diversity hence the use of them in speeches limits the understanding of a speakers aim or a plans agenda.

Guys that think they can get loyalty from a girl by sleeping with her maybe rudely awakened to find out that their intent compromised them, as loyalty is a bond which is achieved through mutual objectives. There are bright girls who's abilities die once they meet guys with such intentions, while with another it awakens.

Some guys need to realise that their views on women can kill the spirit within. If men are approaching women they should know they are responsible for its outcome, If boys are shying away from girls who are bold they shouldn't later moan when they realise it's late.

Arkadiy Raykin - Deficit
А.Райкин - О воспитании детей 1
А Райкин О воспитании детей 2
Логопед - По семейным обстоятельствам
In communication the main barriers as I have noticed are emotions, incommunicable desires, knowing that on a general scale people are afraid to be rejected its easy to find ways in drawing someone close or towards a direction. In writing the symbol for (,) in my mind in not as it is named but in action signifies pacing, my quest is, who has the right to stop me or tell me what I should or shouldn't be thinking?

Looks like kids are sent to put adults to check their life balance.

In Russia growing up I saw gates only up to the length of the waist, in Nigeria some are building 2 stories high, one; that's a waste, as anyone who is determined enough to enter will find a way. For me the less barriers for kids the better.

I wrestle with JJ, sometimes he gets a side kick to remind him he should be watchful, with Sia I play runaround and mimicry, she doesn't take me serious until I bark󾌫

As Alejandro Jodorowsky Quoted Birds born in a cage think flying is an illness.'

What affects methods of parenting are circumstances that people find themselves in, their personality traits and their level of upbringing "I am stating this on a general level. There is a tendency for those who grew up under hard parents to be lax or despotic these are the reasons why young couples start having issues with each other.

Women that are materialistic tend to be oblivious of the emotional needs of their children and they tend to choose those who they can convince in their rightness, often basing their theories against others inadicuaces until some event stops them to realise, some out of guilt refuse to change even when a child of theirs draws their attention, eventually the child withdraws.

To blame a person for not wanting to interact with an adult that is their parent only pushes them into self pity. In resolving issues between child and parent take clues from how to make friends talk, sometimes the injuries done by parents are irreparable, it is similar emotions to why couples separate, sometimes it's easier to forgive a stranger than someone who shares the same lineage.

What is association and what are the associative actions that prevents getting back together? The higher the gravity of negative emotions the less likely the chances for communication.

"Karl Marx Was Right"
"Одиноким предоставляется общежитие" (яичница, омлет)
The main aim of Karl Marx was to have a system that educates a people about the need to develop a country communally to give at least a greater chance for a number of people to raise their standard of life, to what level others who used his ideas was not his agenda. As i once referenced on the topic of the blabbing idiot,  one can propose but those that execute are to be held to similar scrutiny as the founders of an ideology. There is no doubt in my mind that egomania turns even the least harmful idea into a catastrophe, should one then be quiet and let even a percentage of growth be rubbed off?

If one looks at rapid industrialisation of Russia during Stalin's time, it was as a result of the war, the continuous propaganda established during the cold war era fuelled the zeal of the people to be loyal unfortunately in dogmatic ways where lives were lost and eventually leading to the perestroika as the heads realised that natural competitiveness in people was dying and should they not change at the time they did would have resulted into an even worse economic leadership both within and in return globally. Any system has weaknesses but it is in the hands of the leaders to notice when the transition is required.

As I remember mentioning in a debate that we don't need politicians we need activists, one is a propagandist the other is clearly who wakes up a nation to see what is happening or what needs to happen.


Леонид Куравлев. На мне узоров нету
CORPORATE FASCISM: The Destruction of America's Middle Class
There are people who like to talk about deformation of character, in my opinion it happens on 3 levels witch is often based on the actions and reactions people take when they feel they are loosing a share or battle for supremacy.

In a family setting this happens when there is a thug of war between parents for power over material things using child custody battle as an excuse while the kids end up being the foot soldiers who are used as tools rather than considering that such acts rubs them off an identity. Kids in such situations either become docile or even worse than their parents. Kids who are able to pull themselves out of such circumstances fall into 2 types of circumstances either out on the streets or silently awaiting their independence and eventually showing hate towards the manipulative parent or takes that anger on people either at work or in society, and there are those who at youth can see the picture clear and end up making principles by which they live keeping the violators at bay.

On a corporate level it can be used as a marketing tool, after all people like to watch the turn of events between the Titans. We all like wresting and boxing, those who like to watch how people are bitten to a pulp are always in the show as busy body who don't contribute but fuel the agro, the Romans a blood thirsty society who eventually ceased to exist, yet that crave is still an excitement as men are naturally predisposed to violence. Law, who can abuse each better than the other. In the end there will be a resolution, hopefully everyone has learnt a lesson or 2 to help themselves before they loose out on what's truly important.

Is blood thicker than water? Why even put any one in a position to choose when everyone can sit at tables while sealing their fate, sure requires removing the bad heads with bad blood flowing in their veins. Those who seek selfish means eventually end up alone, who knows maybe they like solitude? Not every business seeks to be big and for some it may kill its originality and there are those businesses that shouldn't remain small as the joy spreads throughout the world. To infinity and beyond.