The first tactic that bad people use on you is an assault on your identity. They make you feel bad about how you look, how you do your things, your family background and pose themselves as an example. Regardless of what environment you get yourself in, relationships, business, politics you need to be aware that you are different and unique. As soon as someone tries to assassinate your identity move out of there.
Those who pick on your parents, have trouble with their parents, those who pick on you for no apparent reason, have problems with themselves. You need to remember that the circumstances that surround you to be where you are or what you look like was totally out of your choice but to change it is your choice. Do you really need to meet up to others expectations such as "living out of your means? or adopting a lifestyle you cant maintain just to blend with a particular society level? You need to understand that values are the only things that stand the test of time and good values make a pauper look and be the king. Everything is fine with you, where you are is only a starting point, even if someone makes you believe that that is your final place. A dream is an identity, live it to its fullest.
Better to be a nobody and yet have a servant than pretend to be somebody and have no food. Proverb chapter 12:9
There are always those who walk on their feet yet make those who ride a dilapidated car feel bad about their ride. Don't give anyone the permission to place their value on you.
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