I was asked; "one would think that as you grow older you actually acquire experience in dating yet one is rusty! While a 22year old just gets down and has like 3 dates at a time and no prick to the conscience Why"?
The subconscious state of a youth is a state of mind where shame doesn't exist, they are exploring, this is something that weathers off in adulthood. A lot of social restrictions creates the issues where an adult who seemed to have been out on a prowl is now shot down. The state of mind affects the state of heart. Past bad experiences, feeling of inadequacy i.e. not sure they can give or receive pleasure is a factor. It is easy to get past inadequacy, simple way is to watch porn, i wouldn't advice anyone to pick up a prostitute but this is why prostitution exists, porn is better as it avoids one from getting infected or shamed. Remember that not all women or men want to be treated as a prostitute but many dream of being like porn stars.
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