Nip tuck!

Whatever begins with stipulations (clear conditions) ends up in the light (clear) Egyptian Proverb.

Hidden Meaning: Conditions clear at the outset lead to better results.

In business this maybe a good way but for relationships it creates havoc! The business environment is an impersonal environment where work is done and everyone gets their cut and heads on their own way! In relationships this forms into a cage! Relationships are based on the foundations of free will but with a tiny bit of invisible rules ie loyalty which is the foundation of trust! Creating a prenuptial agreement makes the environment unbearable it is a form of insurance but it doesn't ensure having a relationship! It sounds like , you give me kids and clean for me and In return I will give you money "security for shelter and food" it seems to me that this undermines and puts a human being on a level of an animal! Best not to go to the registry but to the church where God becomes the overseer and judge or give a vow to each other away from the family! This seems to bind people more as it is heart felt!

What is the guarantee that the bride to be can bear kids? What's the guarantee that the rich will always be rich? What's the guarantee that the house can stand natural disasters or a fire? What's the guarantee that the kids wouldn't die? What's the guarantee that the seeds planted in the farm for food and for sale will grow or not rot?

When there is a prenup it creates detachment and the relationship is now a "marriage"! Maybe it works for some but not for everyone! If one of the individuals within a relationship is insecure emotionally which shows in lack of loyalty, it doesn't matter what the paper says!