If you are waiting for approval then you are in for a shockwave of bull-shit coming at you. Love isn't supposed to make you insecure it works the other way round. Love is in giving and in the process sharing happens. If you do love someone their little cracks are cute. Insecurities result from being ridiculed for the things that at a given time you have no power to change.
Why does it matter what the other thinks of you? You want to be accepted? Was that first smile that invited him to you and then he approached not an indicator of full acceptance? Probably not because if you are now feeling insecure then something was amiss.
What do you mean to him? Please don't confuse your personal insecurities like body shape and lack of money or status as the reason for not being loved. Most people don't know what love is so we keep judging ourselves instead of just being free.
Now how about life does it give any assurance? Are you ready for it? Lack of experience thats the foundation of all insecurities. NOT BEING READY. Thats the way love goes!
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