Why do women feel the need to confront the other woman rather than face their man?

That's because men run when confronted and the woman feels that confronting the other is less collateral damage! If only some knew that those who break down a home for the sake of their pleasure will not be there to take the responsibility for their actions results. Ever heard when someone says "Whats for pleasure isn't often for keeps". Imagine the horror when one realises they were only used as a way for releasing pressure but not suitable for companionship.