"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." (Edmund Burke)
Its a widely known quote "when good men keep quiet evil prevails", i suppose what it means is cowards are running the world when sheep's are slain. If it doesn't hurt someone everyone passes by.
I wonder if there will ever be a world without confrontation. By confrontation I mean people making a conscious decision to contribute creatively rather than projecting personal bias; white, black, tall, slim, bla bla, that doesn't really speak for what a person can do but a measure in size "tall and slim, fat and short" as strength or weakness, after all for those who are short a ladder was invented etc so why when someone looks at a situation they can't see past the problem and by that creating even more issues than necessary for themselves and others. How much influence to a problem are physical attributes in relation to people is valid? Image? A desire to look better than others? How about realising that there are pretty looking people that are miserable? That doesn't cross anyone's mind? Or is it a deliberate drive to create sales yet rubs the society blind from connecting adequately. Idolatry is when someone makes things more important than people or a relationship. No one says things aren't necessary but when the pursuit of it becomes obscene then people need to rethink their values.
Someone's ability to be productive creatively revolves around values and knowing when it applies as well as an abundance of life and technical information, hopefully developed through active experience be it in thought or deed.
My life's purpose is to live, living to the fullest at every conscious moment. If you ask me what's my career purpose for self and others is in achieving near proper articulation of strengths and weaknesses within an environment at a given place and apportioned time through growth stages. It's the core task of managers in any industry, it produces knowledge in market trends and shifts and directly affects the economy, it's so mixed up in technical terms in books while lecturers aren't breaking it down to understandable language. The industrial era created academics but where is the knowledge/experience for this millennium and hopefully beyond?
The only reason the idea of strengths and weaknesses exist is because we live in a predator prey world. Survival instincts; the more developed they are the swifter one addresses issues before they become problems.
People only become ware of developing themselves when they feel cheated or have been taken advantage of. If you look at kids they are absolutely unaware of what goes on around them and when parents start pushing them around that's when those complexities start developing, should a person in this moment sit to think about what makes them good and bad they will realise their potential.
People don't understand why I fight that physical image everyone is trying to convince me about, well my physical attributes have already put me in that position where my being oblivious of my attractiveness deluded me about relationships, if I knew how I looked to guys in addition to the knowledge i had about how my heart and mind works I would create havoc. There are certain strengths that one should be glad that some aren't aware of, and there are those hurtful moments when you realise that not knowing of your strengths early enough would have saved the unnecessary agro. Peter didn't care who he was with, he wanted a doll so there my strength was a weakness to him. This in effect is what one can draw knowledge in realising the difference between what people value vs propriety towards another. Everyone is discriminative no doubt but when someone doesn't look at the mirror himself then it becomes absurd. You can hurt someone who brings value to you by being vain.
Strengths are skills or hard resources that can be used in the now, hence time only determines what Is strength or what is weakness. Like I said above, at least I woke up to my physique at 33 not 60 when it seems that one can't catch up any more. Strengths and weaknesses differ from person to person based on traditional and interpersonal virtues and values passed through ideologies nationally or globally.
Strengths are divided into personal, social and economic factors same as weaknesses and analysis happens when both are compared. HR and Economics professionals relay a lot on findings to draw futuristic projections and honestly the main attribute to being good at analysis is care and a level of dedication over time.
Гении и злодеи. Никола Тесла. Человек из будущего
Bill Withers - Lovely Day
Bibbidi-Bobbidi-Boo (from Cinderella)
Brian McKnight - 6, 8, 12
Backstreet Boys - As Long As You Love Me
julio iglesias,que nadie sepa mi sufrir
Please guys the white culture is hypocritical; you use slavery to lift the economy, then use brute to keep that economy and you want no opposition? Who is a fool? Black people who have been cultured into a look have adopted a false image for sanitation but that doesn't remove the dirt within. Force is destructive when it considers no environmental and family value. Every environment sustains itself based on natural factors, ghettos are ghettos because those who live there have been violated and yes maybe only a few decide to break out of the neighbourhood but few are able to erase the imprint it has had.
My way of dealing with things is gradual growth not an imposed image of who I am not or living a life I haven't earned. My bro is rich yes but my brother isn't me, he helps me as he was once helped but I need to help myself as I have kids who need that knowledge. Manna from heaven can only be sustained by those who call prayers for self or others, should they find it useful/relatable.
Александр Суворов. Гении и злодеи.
Motorway Cops : Keeping Up Appearances - Guys enjoy being stopped!
I have never rubbed my fathers image on any guy as I know that most guys due to pursuing their selfish interests refrain from being in communication with them. As a girl I know how to manage the men in my family as their protective instincts are high, they are very suspicious of other men who are in the lives of their sisters so sometimes the less they knew the better or they would have been at fault if I didn't retrain them, now they have the licence to kill but they know when to act and how to act when I call. They do ask me for permission and unless I decide they sit put. Sometimes out of worry they say and do things they shouldn't but that's understandable. Daddy and Osas have a temper and that's often because of the disciplinarians that they are towards their women, don't know if that makes them have fun but they should know better. At my call daddy unleash hell pokaji Im kuzkinu mat. They would laugh at this as jokes is how we communicate our thoughts. Aslam Tolko palka, a zaitcam Nara.
Insurance sustains industries but there are policy clauses within that are taking advantage of people. They are also sales driven and that's where the issues are, regardless of how informative they may be before buying they don't consider certain situations that are crucial. Yes maybe insurance removed the desperate emotions that result when accidents happen however when one is disciplined it takes advantage of that person. As a child of doctors I don't see why I need medical insurance, I can live with the car insurance but medicals? My life is totally driven by my lifestyle, genetics and the fact that I am hardworking enough to pay my bills. I may be crazy but in the instance of some reckless driver who can injure me I am forced to consider having medical insurance. Do policy makers think further than just the general mass?
At this point I find it pointless talking to sales call centres as they are guided by policies which profits the company, sales people are target minded that they don't realise when there is a difference between friendship and work.
It is surprising that cops are busy harassing drivers than chasing and locking down violators of safety and security. Looks like the men are wooses.
Service based people should realise that when someone asks for an evaluation and estimate that the person also needs time to appropriate the funds as paying one off completely can put other things in disorder. As a mum who lives on a budget self imposed I ration my bills according to priorities that balance everything. It's easier for me not to buy clothes than not pay staff, that's my principle. If I have extended bills I know that somewhere I am accumulating to pay it off in one day, yes that may be a nuisance for the utilities companies but instead of ruining someone to pay them I will stall everyone to have sanity.
Everyone wants to make a buck who is going to save my ass if I am all stressed? That's why I have a def ear to people's demands. Let them Google me :). They should be happy that I am utilising their services as I can live a jungle lifestyle and be the happiest, their luck is I have kids who don't need to suffer at this stage in their life, once they are 16 their ass will be on the streets to develop a perspective. To make it easier for them now I simply don't spoil them even if they get their free handouts. Sia drives me mad with demands, let her do that to her father, the annoying thing about that is when he is gone I end up having to correct all his guilty tripping on them. If guilt is all that leads a guy to doing things that harms the kids later then I will use the rod to eradicate it, if he can't be like me with the kids then better stay away or conform. Tomorrow I will be dealing with kids for adults who think life is a ride in the park. Aaaa I don't understand what's wrong with men of now a days, it's like either too rigid "foolish" or lax "stupid" in family matters. Giving kids the freedom to play is different from keeping them locked up in the house with sweets. Twice I left him with the kids to take responsibility and twice he was looking for me, if I wasn't there for him for the first 3 it would have been the same story, how many times I told him not to send things as solace so he doesn't end up like his own father with his kids seeing him as a walking wallet and no contact, tomorrow he will be wondering why they lie to him about their true picture of him as a father.
To buy things for kids is necessary but useless if the person isn't there, so I shutdown any form of presents except on holidays. Money driven kids become greedy and selfish adults in return. What's the point in seeing but not having parents? There are those who are detached from their kids even if they stay in same room and there are those parents who are far and have given all. People who marry for status are never there for their kids as care is what drives outreach, that instinct is developed through care.
I had 16 speed fines on one road within 5months, how daft can that be, almost feels like I was specifically targeted. Is that a governments way of earning money? Driving for me is a release of tension and in times when I am under stress I accumulated those fines. That's why I needed to get rid of peter as he drives me insane, his problems aren't mine.
Backstreet Boys - Incomplete
Truth
I Will Never Be On the Wrong Side Again
Slaves are made in such ways
Stephen - The Mad Irishman - Braveheart
Goofs - Braveheart
Time To Come Home
Leon Timbo - Where Is My Home
"If I'm Not In Love" by Faith Hill
Bài hát Safe and sound - Taylor Swift
Happy Wheels Speedart - My Own Bedroom
Taylor Swift - Blank Space
Katy Perry - Dark Horse ft. Juicy J
Wiz Khalifa - See You Again ft. Charlie Puth
Eminem - Not Afraid
askalsu: Epidemics "effects of mismanagement"
Five Star - Strong As Steel
Hands Across the World - AIRTEL ONE8
Апокалипсис. Мир без детей (2010)
Yours, Mine And Ours
It's Complicated -
Ciara - I Bet
Ciara - I Got You
Monster-In-Law -
Ciara - Like A Boy
Unclipped Standard Poodle - Unshaved
5. SAT Math Strategy: Goldilocking
sort out your emotions first then proceed to prove it in action with others. whats the point knowing mathematical equations if it can't be applied to life and business strategy's "mission" and tactic's "objectives". circumstantial effects = effective people management + socio economic leadership methods.
After being in a marriage like mine, what woman would want to be with men? What girl will like to be married and have children? The only faith I have is my fathers example which is why I gave 10 years in the first place. After all the violence and obsessiveness, why should I even believe anyone or in anything?
The youth of today are as a result of the nonchalant attitudes by hungry mungers for a government and people. Cold War? What was it? Certain lot who were not focused on family but possession of resources. That bastard for Churchill only ended up in light because Thatcher took over. The hell through Stalins time brought people together by default thats why he is still revered, now? the backlash is that the current generation can't find the beginnings. A nation can be all pristine but how about the hearts of the people who were neglected? Trash? That's questionable, who is trash and who created that garbage? Where are the self serving leaders now?
If underpopulation is the concern of governments then they should stop patronising bad behaviour by people towards family. Lazy/weak boys mentally and physically is as a result of nesters for mothers. Letting boys loose isn't as is but a principle that boys are growing without fathers or a figure that represents an image, in act that encourages them to active social duties.
Boys are made weak by domesticated mothers, it's as plain as can be. Aggressive behaviours in men and women is as a result of suppressive attitudes of parents and governing polices. Lazy girls should not be speaking for working girls in parliament who are posing themselves as feminists. Making women and children's rights a political game to have a job is obscene. Who wants to be a house wife should take their place, who not should go to the fields of their passions.
Wyclef Jean - Sweetest Girl (Dollar Bill) ft. Akon, Lil Wayne, Niia
A trapped soul always feels like a refugee the hardships don't matter.
Bruno Mars - Grenade
Destiny's Child - Emotion
A True Story About Planet Pluto: | Passport to Pluto and Beyond
If people think they can control someone who is made of strong elements and experiences they are kidding. Ice mind maybe compromised/blinded by intense emotions but sooner or later it becomes stealth like. People who chose not to act in irrational ways are often considered weak. Why wake up the sleeping giant? Why create enemies out of allies?
Гении и злодеи. Уинстон Черчилль.
Faith Hill-Lost
What is planned obsolescence?
LIQUIDEEP - BBM
When someone is called a nickname such as ele boy it means he can play ball while leaving the field clean, I wonder what he thought not knowing the girl he was dating by nickname Snow White. To stain people is easy, how about meeting an honest and direct person? Bleach out that core deceptive nature. How about that peter, dealing with someone who was made of steel. Stalin played hitler the hurler while leaving Churchill out of the game, where with came his dark anguish. Took a whole nation through destruction and ended up loosing out.
People who are afraid to die/trust seldom make the decisions that need be taken. Stalin had the best secret service that informed him of the characters of leaders around him and on the global market. Russia is too big to be greedy, England is too small to self sustain, in order to to survive they use deception as a method of political actions, America is too far to dictate anything which is why they look for alliances with Britain.
Hell how blinding can arrogance be not to see what is coming.
Mona Lisa Smile
Mona Lisa Smile - What for?
Le Clan des Siciliens
Peggy Lee - He's a tramp
ANGEL DE LA GUARDA
Rihanna - Russian Roulette
Marcus Miller - Hard Slapping
Marcus Miller - So What
A girl walking without a bra is named a whore, women wear bras, close your legs not to trigger the interest of hautty men and tomorrow women have lost their mojo. Boo who.
It is not my place to disillusion anyone from being with someone but to disillusion people from the image that was falsely painted to avoid having kids who carry anguish in their hearts disturbing them from being productive only to loose it to self destructive acts in drugs and violence towards others. For Boys and Girls to know how to cook isn't a prerequisite for a good relationship it's a duty to self manage themselves. What ever personal skills one acquires from home helps them not to be a liability to themselves and on occasion to others. If a boy knows how to clean and cook they are able to help their spouse during pregnancies or illness/absence, girls that know how to be self sufficient and productive are in a position to help and sustain a family in hard times.
There are many men today who married mouses at youth when reaching a certain age wished their spouse would wake up and talk about things other than dippers. How shameful can it be to have a mother, sister or wife who is capable of handling herself and business? I guess that's the baby boomers era, negatively inclined, not all, but that's the core to the crash in economies as it started from the great depressive eras in the 30's down to our times.
Saw my grand mothers and unties on their knees that is enough to culture a nature of audacity "stand up for yourself and walk".
My 21st Birthday Speeches Part 1
Fergie - A Little Party Never Killed Nobody (All We Got) (Lyric Video) ft. Q-Tip, GoonRock
Kenny G - The Moment
Fergie - Glamorous ft. Ludacris
Kenny G - Sentimental
Nelly, Fergie - Party People
Kenny G - By The Time This Night Is Over
NIGERIAN INDEPENDENCE MAN - CHIEF ANTHONY ENAHORO
In The Arms Of His Love--Women Of Faith
Céline Dion - I'm Alive
Céline Dion - That's The Way It Is
Don Cheadle Bio | Life and Career | Filmography |
Westlife - Safe
Richard Marx - Loved
Richard Marx Fool's Game
Angel Eyes Jennifer Lopez
Fantastic Four - Heroes Unite
Keny Arkana - Vie d'artiste
Keny Arkana - La Rage
P-Square - Danger
Enigma - Return To Innocence
Erasure - Always
The Frog and the Cow | Aesop's Fables | PINKFONG Story Time for Children
P Square - Alingo
Enigma & D-Emotion Project - Evolution
Erasure - Am I Right?
There comes a time in a humanitarians life where after witnessing so much violence bursts out in either speaking to inform through any means of communication to warn people of impending issues within a society, it isn't often to create a revolt but to depict a picture of what's in people's hearts and should the governing body's not hear it then it turns into a much larger effort to stop the course of events.
People are often blind to what happens in their neighbourhoods until a child is hurt or degradation becomes so evident that it now overwhelms the government. It's at those moments that leaders are tested for their skill not when it's quiet and dandy. The personal values leaders hold directly affects the decisions made, apart from being misinformed. The leaders who have strong and open views to life can often see where what isn't being mentioned. One can live in opulence for a period of time and totally forget about who they are or where they came from, it's easy to get lost when one is pampered/complimented; that's throwing dust in ones eyes. Good looks for leaders isn't often required even though it affects judgement as self image is linked to esteem. A guy could be all cute and all but may feel insecure within because of circumstances they may have faced. Self image is as a result of what works/experiences and aspirations one has for self and that reflects in plans towards people, can a leader wish for himself good yet do bad to his or her people? No/shouldn't. Can a family man wish good for himself but looks not after his kids? Yes/would/will depending on circumstances and resources/time.
Family values translates to leadership qualities within a person, it's what forms a persons orientation to life and questions laid policies. What is aid? A solution to an issue, yes and no is a matter of what options are available. If an aspiring leader doesn't know or has been misinformed of the potential of his people what plans can they propose? if people don't develop skills how will they be called to join the party?
Census what is it? Sense - values and understanding/what decisions people make or are ready to make, counting heads with sheeps only makes for a dull report. Where are the youth? what do they want? where do they see themselves in 1,2,3 years from now? Where are the elders, what do they need to live the rest of their remaining lives in harmony? Where are the women? what do they need to help them support their family or self? These are the types of questions to ask and not sales motivated spreadsheets for simplistic informatics on trade. Africa is founded on transactional bases, it is not a transacting environment.
I may be wrong I may be right but this is how my mind works, a consultant coach and a counsellor in one mind, if people are expecting me to pacify their ignorance then all I will do is post sexy pictures. Complaints aren't indications of desire, just a bunch of emotions that people don't want to deal with by being busy, clowns are there for that.
Ну, погоди! - Выпуск 14 (Дом юных техников)
P-Square Ft. Akon, May D - Chop My Money
Enigma Boum Boum
erasure - Siren Song [HD] [HQ]
sub units for ministries, let the supposed adults play out their political ideosincrases on their platforms and leave the youth to express their creatives and designs as markups for further development or commercialisation. Honestly tired of youth being kept docile.
Джон Рокфеллер / John Rockefeller. Гении и злодеи.
He hated the image of himself, after earning so much he got to the stage where it mattered not, hence gave it out with much thought.
What is unique? Something someone hasn't heard or seen meanwhile on the other end of the planet it's wasting. Recycling is a function of economy just as preservation and maintenance.
Discipline is self management and a form of expression, who works 9-5 may not perform better than someone working from 5 to 9, different people have different energy levels, some can do in 2hrs what another cant in 4hrs, who's best? With me I had flexible time especially for mothers as their mind is always occupied before 10 and after 3 so what's the point in suffering oneself policing staff who could be sitting at a desk pretending to work or worse their mind is absolutely not present. I myself need that break in the office at nights to prepare for them for the next day. I work harder than those who work for me because I am the founder and CEO, when it's time to whoop them to work there will be little doubt or question about how or when.
P-Square & Matt Houston - E No Easy Remix (French Version)
I think I am beating my dad with my peach tree growing fruits as his mango tree in his garden. Can't wait for them to ripen but not soon enough. My apple tree is taking its time, cherry too, the lemon is still flowering, would be fun to see a cross pollination of peach and apple, or lemon apple, or a peachy lemon, what a taste, I'm weird that way. Bio-logical gene-tics. whatta high breed. Designed 2 portals one was a titanic the other is in progress, a cross breed of network tools to sort out the needed business projects.
The sad reality of people who are in the financial system is that the attitude projected is like that of since you have what I need then you must give me, that sort of dialogue happens, in another way would sound as conning.
Backstreet Boys - More Than That
Celine Dion - Le Ballet
Rihanna - Don't Stop The Music
Pitbull - Give Me Everything ft. Ne-Yo, Afrojack, Nayer
Christina Aguilera Feat Missy Elliott - Car Wash
Madonna - Papa Don't Preach
Michael Jackson - They Don't Care About Us
Tupac - Hellrazor
Sting - Russians
U2 - Where The Streets Have No Name
When I give I give with the principle of not taking back, when I take I always give back. It's just how I am, I hate strings.
In handling finance when it comes to business and friends I separate issues. In business I have to be calculating in terms of savings and loans. In friendships I simply give without any strings attached, I find it distasteful to buy friendships. That I reserve in business as I call it alliances and physical cash isn't often what's needed. Valuable advice "research and development" is a skill that I transact with, considering time factors and provable theories and facts derived from it. I am an intellectual capacity developer in reference to mental and materials raw or reproduced information that is useful.
Clearly banks need projects analysis which is what a business plan is with projections, they can ad in their calculations after making price surveys however a delivered report with cost projections isn't a complete analysis as the purchaser of a plan may have his or her own preference in implementation, it could either be higher or lower depending on creativity and resources.
If I have to buy a friends favour I will end up using "manipulating that person" as friendship for me means a lot more than a handshake, so I simply refuse to loan, i'd rather give what I can. I have few friends and I hold them dear and least concerned if they do, I don't need those types of expectations as it leads to disappointments; what if my standards are too high or low, everyone has reasons for why they are in contact with people, should anyone claim to be a friend to someone I hold them to that word.
ГЛОБАЛЬНАЯ МАФИЯ- Клан - Кто и Как Правит Нами и Миром.!!!
Ivanushki International - Tuchi
askalsu: I'd rather Loose it all!
askalsu: Don't look at the jar, but at what's inside it!
The Notorious B.I.G. - "Big Poppa"
Connell Cruise - Not Just Friends
Iron Man and War Machine vs. Hammer Drones - Iron Man 2
Fast & Furious 7 – Official Clip "Plane Drop"
If politics is a place where men seek esteem for their sons they better have a will to discipline themselves. Bad decisions are as a result of that low self esteem, it is discriminative of of anyone regardless of who has money or not. A guy who has low esteem is likely to surround himself with devious people who appeal to his ego rather than an objective group of people able to propose plans other than murder.
If a nation is headless; individuals thinking only of what to eat now are likely to keep values that in time brings blame.
The reasons why money rules; people are either lazy, undereducated or growing old systems.
The lazy have no will or think that what's old is sure until it's brought to ruin/inapplicable.
The undereducated aren't able to produce new or maintain existing structures. Old systems exist when the young generation has been made weak by imposing ideologies that serves the old alone, eventually the old become trapped in their own perpetrated dogma. Values/valuables vs value/transition.
Money is useless when a nation has no vision. Money is useless when people are valueless. Money is useless when a person has nothing to look forward to other than spending to keep the illusion/emotion of happiness.
What's evolution? Reaching new heights in internal and extending the reach to the world.
Let me give an example on how I manage my resources, be it physical or space. Physical is in distribution of strength and experience/knowledge, in my home I use the conceptualised format of cooking.
I have 2 bank accounts each in my mind represents a function; today and tomorrow. Today is petty expenses, tomorrow is active plans taken today towards tomorrow's focused results/objectives.
The concept of space and pacing my effort to keeping the momentum. Where does evolution come in? Let's assume I bought a house that I like but it holds old fashion fixtures, I decide based on my taste and requirements. When it comes to taste I like the ancient looks as the current fashion is mundane/overused because manufacturers had focused on mass production leaving uniqueness questionable/expensive/expendable. So what do I do? I take down the old doors where I need space and I put in sliding doors, a door is a door it's an opening, what design is placed is totally at my mercy not what others think, it gives me what I need so long as it's within my space with consideration to health and safety. After all a revolving door can also be dangerous, everything has its pro's and cons.
I hate closed wardrobes it is distracting as I like too look at what clothes I have so that in the morning when I wake up I go straight without wasting precious time I should have used in the evening while in bed, same it is with my thoughts, apart from the practicality a creative idea can get lost in persons that are waiting for a "proper" environment to function, for clothes breathing rather than developing mould and moles having a field day on my clothes. Rats breed in closed corners.
As regards cooking, what's a recipe? What's trendy? What appeals to a pallet creates the style. For all it is an apple pie can be mixed with berries for those who want an extra burst of flavour and there are those who like it traditional however it isn't for one to dictate to another what is to be or not to be that's monopoly/boring.
For me my first ideas lead to more for later when I finally sit to group/bond/and seal in production. Those who pressure me to creating and publishing one final piece are only looking to stall a creative expression. I carry everyone along on a journey for them to find their own way while keeping myself in tact.
X-Wife - Heart of The World
Nagging Wife!
How do you stop nagging, criticism and controlling behavior?
Boys who grow up with controlling mothers tend to think that even a positive advice from a wife is nagging, so you give them the space and when that doesn't work you move out. I have never had an inter relationship with my dad that was oppressive so I saw no reason to run from dialogues with men, I run from emotional/negative people, it's not healthy for my creatives.
Domestic work has never been a problem for me, if a woman loves her home she keeps it tidy. I distaste ruling any form of staff about their position/duties as that for me cultures a slave mindset, policing people is daft as in the process you end up cultured in their ways by constantly nagging on supposedly low mentality people however they could actually be hating you and deliberately doing things that distracts from the main focus.
When a boss spends time on looking for ways to spy on their staff rather than putting checkpoints for the crafty minded they end up micromanaging than fulfilling the executive duties. What are check points/actions especially within a home? Clean your own house once a month or every 3 months with the maid, then once a year hire a cleaning company to do a complete overhaul, reshuffle the furniture to expose the dark corners, it also allows a fresh new ambiance to the space without spending too much on changing furnace. I mean if saving money requires creativity why not do things differently from what others do that keeps sucking the reassures of the earth and putting people in debts?
Isn't it a lesson as to why the economy went standstill and there are those who weren't overly affected by it? Reshuffle your expenses, spread the need for acquisition from one area to the other, ad a few new details here and there not a total overhaul, if everyone wants to make a buck who is going to look for ways to maximise effort? I am a mum what's the point in buying expensive furniture if I have young babies and their friends who could use a sharp object to tear it up because they are inquisitive? Same it is in reference to understanding what priorities are/mean. I'd rather have manageable tools than screaming at kids for not knowing the value of my work as that makes them feel unappreciated, which results to esteem issues.
I honestly wish that my exes can tell me what they hated about me rather than complain behind my back. I preferred to just move away rather than going through the battles of rights, if my life revolves around having men for show then I guess that would become a battle of words. I simply act on my natural impulses of affection hugs and kisses and if the attention isn't given I shutdown. It's easy everyone can't be affectionate all the time so you try and when there is no response you change gear.
I never spoke of my past relationships until this one because it hurt, other than that peter never knew who were people in my life even to the point of family members, my men in my family stayed away and i seldom called on them, as peter voiced out his displeasure with the relatives of his x'wife so he attributed all his past relationships on me. I spent an enormous amount of time trying to disprove/disabuse myself from him framing me and eventually got tired. It's daunting living in another woman's trash, I have met this much too often, which is why the desire to try again is scary. Everyone has basic traits that reminds them of their past but giving another a chance need loads of open discuss, which should include what you've done wrong. There may not be but I reserve a portion of my mind as I know I am not perfect and not looking to be nor do i look to make another perfect. Love me love my dogs, that's just how it is. If adults meet why try culturing them? If the policy on kids is to have them grow in their own image why then the need to subject someone who comes into your life to becoming a replica of you that you may eventually hate to be with? That's the factor that breaks relationships, culturing someone to your taste by that removes the flavour out of the person and of life. I like my space and I presume others too, when I give space, guys often think it's rejection, how about one move or the next for affection indicated that you wanted space? Why then blame me for leaving?
Time, Space & Love
Brad Paisley- Is It Raining At Your House
Brad Paisley - Online
Justin Timberlake - SexyBack (Director's Cut) ft. Timbaland
In business having a drive is a leadership quality of a self starter, guys who need ego massaging often get the hammer, same in relationships. I am not inhibited so in business my creativity/solutions provision isn't subjective even if i take a stand, i allow free flow before making a decision, just as open as I am in business same in relationships, the guys that have a hard time with me are those who have low esteem, same in business, I am foreveeeeer having to open people up as that misery affects me and their own productivity. I was asked why I speak of sex when in business, that's because sex drive is business energy, low potential is low/limiting expressive actions. This doesn't mean I fuck with everyone I meet I chose my battles and methods just as business strategies and tactics change. There are some guys who will need therapy after interacting with me. Gosh how hard can it be to differentiate between sex and sexuality? Raw or blunt?
People are made of hormones and on an initial discuss may be high on adrenalin but a moment later become interrupted by another set of hormones and that may lead to a disconnect so taking a no as a rejection may be wrong. People who live a conscious life are only seldom affected by hormones. It's simple if people understand what fermion's are in mating seasons, guys are always ready but women are controlled by natures built in principles of procreation while nurtured by principalities for safety and care as a girl can be easily pregnant and going by the general none committal attitude of boys have to protect themselves. A woman that has been married and had kids aren't really looking for much especially when independent they are likely to dump a guy for being a nag. A girl may be financially dependent but emotionally independent which is why guys who think they can control often miss that aspect and end up messing with a potentially great relationship.
When I hear a guy dishing out compliments I either respond or question it with an attitude that says "yes and what else do you want?" They maybe sincere or just voicing out their pleasure "intent" rather than being serious about a person. Girls that are free aren't needy, they can dump a guy at the drop of a hat not because they haven't been satisfied in one way or another but they have a set principle not to be led by advances without basis.
Is it possible to be serious about someone you don't know? No but a person who doesn't joke with people's hearts doesn't pretend nor behaves in a manner that brings a potential to ruin. If guys aren't open about their life's vision they are likely to loose on who the person they meet is, if a girl is just a tool then why complain later when she leaves that there was so much they didn't know. When she is with another guy they start trying to get her back, may not work as that becomes a rebound and eventually faded a away as the person who took for granted will be leaving in a shame like state of mine further subjecting the reunion to a crash. If it's over it's over and everyone should carry their portion of guilt. Sad but when guys pursue girls for their own interests it limits growth, same happens with nations that take foreigners for a nuisance by that rubbing themselves of a true citizen and are left with a lazy populace. What's the point in having mass without potential? Glad that my world isn't affected by insecurities of people and nations even if I maybe restricted to act to my full potential. Bias rubs all of any growth/connection.
Ротшильды - Биография
I Want to know what love is - Foreigner
Eric Clapton - Tears in heaven
Sade - Soldier of Love
Will Smith - Wild Wild West ft. Kool Mo Dee, Dru Hill
If guys are complaining that it's the lack of finance that makes them loose interest in sex that just total crap, how about the poor who keep multiplying like roaches. A guy that feels bad about himself shuts himself down, the more stupid things they do the more guilt increases and they feel judged in the end they block themselves from their partner. Men are physical beings, if they feel rejected they become nags. I ask sometimes do they need that deception from a girl that they didn't notice major mishaps only to have an erection? Habba!
Jennifer Lopez - Papi
Leona Lewis - I See You [Theme from Avatar]
If a girl doesn't tell a guy what he has done wrong towards her he will think that's normal and will proceed to do worse. For guys who don't listen at all it's clear he doesn't care.
A guy that sets himself on just to get her pregnant to salvage a broken relationship will be in for a surprise that she is protecting herself.
When I read African parables and quotes I see loads of ignorance about women and deceit, which is why I seldom quote them as it is void of any clue about consequences.
Jennifer Lopez - Dance Again ft. Pitbull
Leona Lewis - Run (Official Video)
When I read african quotes on beauty and patience I see misguided opinions that has misled Men about relationships.
Shakira - Loca ft. Dizzee Rascal
Staying Centered, Peaceful & Certain
Balancing Patience, Confidence & Sexual Aggression
Shakira - Something (Lyrics on screen)
Nas - One Mic
If I Should Fall Behind, Faith Hill (Breathe)
Faith Hill - There You'll Be
LeAnn Rimes - Cant Fight The Moonlight
Whitney Houston - Run To You
Leaving Behind Those Who Disrespect You
What's patience? Painstaking endurance that can cripple a soul, patience and beauty is applied to work and perfecting ones craft. A nice girl is a cultured being in traditional ways should the people around violate it it turns back to mess with them.
As regards confidence its paying respect to what one is handling. Respect bow down to people or a craft.
Sexual aggression errrrm that is like rape, an aggressive person is angry, rejected every thing that can fall into the spectrum of hurting someone emotionally and physically. Guys who understand what tenderness is usually have a flow, most guys like to hit and run as the idea of commitment scares them. I wonder why, :) could it be the mothers and sisters they grew up with? It's simple, how a guys sister and mother is is how he responds to women, what's worse is if the father adds his level of ignorance in not revealing what his relationship was towards his wife. People should analyse their parents words and behaviours before getting into a relationship same with girls.
What's the core? If marriages in the past were a setup of families then they should also speak of their shortcomings rather than putting their kids in the battles of their parents lack of affection towards each other. In Africa people are marrying for status so where will there be any form of understanding in how it works. The way houses are built in Nigeria shows how people who build it think of what a home is. Women have their own bedroom same with men and the play time they have is to have babies for public show that everything is ok. Polygamy is the foundation of all the troubles in the African setting, as for the whites I don't even want to go there. The Dutch way is everyone pays their bills which isn't any different at least maybe there is less agro on financial grounds but does that create an amiable environment? Why are people cold? That closeness isn't there, looking all pristine indicates peace is brewing beneath. An open war is an indication that people are trying to break the barriers. Alcohol and drugs consumption is as a result of suppression of needed emotions.
Zip-a-Dee-Doo-Dah (Original)
My Favorite Things
Игорь Тальков - Бывший подъесаул
Листая старую тетрадь
Starsky and Hutch - Original Intro (1975 - 1979 )
Lady GaGa - Boys Boys Boys
Lady Gaga - Born This Way
Will Smith - Will 2K ft. K-CI
Jim Carrey - Cuban Pete from The Mask
Grease- You're the one that I want
Grease - Look At Me , I'm Sandra Dee
There are 2 definitions for the words disrespect and respect. Agreeing to someone's opinion with contribution is disrespectful to oneself, if one should replace for a moment the word respect with contribution one can see that the suffix con deforms the meaning of tribute, if one hasn't earned a tribute in deed then it's a compliment based on a desire to believe in an illusion rather than attributing some sort of reference to an effort/experience. If something or someone is useful to someone they often say thank you rather than accusing for revealing a truth they could have found if they tried. Which is why quarrels happen between persons as one has been made to feel less or painted less of what it takes to apply oneself to something.
It's always easy to dis someone's effort how about looking for ways to add value to a piece that one may feel isn't complete. When I see something produced and I know how the average minds think then I simply offer an additional option rather than rendering a produce to nothing.
Scorn is the way most people are brought up so criticism becomes their natural state of looking at things and it becomes their nature if they don't consciously part from it. Critique is ok but how about completing a piece with a final solution?
Don't Be Average, Be Amazingly Different
Yanni-Secret Vows
Natalie Music Video - Bruno Mars
Celine Dion - Declaration Of Love
Shania Twain - From This Moment On
One More Lonely Night - Gladys Knight & The Pips
Savage Garden - The Animal Song
There are kids based businesses that adults are running a 10year old can be a consultant, giving an opinion is consulting. There are different stages of consult so at the first level it's an opinion, next step is testing, after its bringing a markup to life before it's commercialised. So kids can get cracking and share.
There are two directions in leadership one is service the other is delivery. In either a level of self motivation is required it's what I call self starting steps. A self starter is less influenced ie surrenders to people who even when they smile are diminishing any attempt to push through obstacles, tackle them back ask why they say what they say, if they buff you off take a decision from then on not to listen.
There is an inner voice called pressure it's that voice that most people are afraid of yet if they ask themselves why they will see that what they hear is questioning what they believe or have been made to believe. I always remember one fact what I knew yesterday was told by those who wanted me to think that way, what I know today is what I have experienced by my efforts. Others can give you experience how about giving yourself a chance to live?
Confidence is esteem either tied to physical image of self or field of work, the aura around a person attracts either friends or enemies neither of which is a constant, if someone is living in a society that is full of deceit there is a tendency to question even the most basic gestures such as a hug or a handshake. Self image that can counter what ever people pull as being able to handle self in situations as wells people in situations creates the impression people have about someone regardless of the perceived fights.
Background knowledge is relevant only in work environments as no one truly knows to the end who a person is until they do something contrary to what promises are made, if someone provokes someone into an action its best to investigate before labelling that person. Friends don't always speak for who a person is they may influence one or two situations but on a general scale what actions a person takes speaks for the person. Those who give advice to their friends should be there to see things through and not backing out when all hell breaks loose, you will know who is who when hard times come.
Authenticity, how easy is it to prove what others say about another is what is, let everyone who is brave enough speak for themselves. People who can handle what ever whom ever where ever are often considered authentic, authenticity isn't in behaviour but results. That's my opinion which is why people often get a second chance, a third time mistake is either deliberate or point blank carelessness.
What is manipulation? Still beats me, people that can't convince others in facts but use aggression or those who are pulling on strings to force someone into a direction that suits them is often seen as a manipulator. Everyone plays the fool? I guess everyone makes mistakes but deliberate blunders questions a character.
Attack is a form of manipulation it's either used in defence or offence. If one is surrounded by predators what cloak should one wear? Chameleon tactics works when in danger not necessarily in times of war. Direct expression of intent is by far more effective in relationships as i have experienced, in business I ask what's efficient even if I try being open. I am not in the field where knowledge should be hidden that is self generated or widely available, my personal life is no ones business at any point and only I am at liberty to reveal what's what and who's who. If guys like the chase then here I play my womanly strategies. I am a lady and a tramp that's about it and those who are trying to push me into one or the other direction I become very obstinate, as being a puppet isn't what anyone wants, so I see no reason someone should do that to me.
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