11/10/2015

Aegbe wa womven. Ridiculous.

Wyclef Jean - Perfect Gentleman
DJ Sbu - Qina (Official Video)
Wyclef Jean - Sweetest Girl (Dollar Bill) ft. Akon, Lil Wayne, Niia
Wyclef Jean - Let Me Touch Your Button ft. will.i.am, Melissa Jimenez
Diversion Tactics - Scouts Report
The Evolution of Football - Tactics through the Ages
Diversion Tactics Deadlock
The Avengers - Hulk Smash
How To Be Confident Without Coming Across As Arrogant
Take The Confidence Quiz | How Confident Are You?
How To Make A Kickass First Impression | 5 First Impression Tips
Redfoo - Let's Get Ridiculous (Official Video)There is a difference between watching football- cheat/cheering; lead generation, playing football - professional skills / analysis, and understanding the play of a game - psychology and formations of strengths.

I wonder sometimes how those who make replies to posts think they come across vs what they are communicating. Subjective reasoning is often on defence, attackers call upon themselves the defencive players to attack, while the coach pulls on strengths and weaknesses to keep the goal and the game on.

Sales based people seldom see the field, marketers set the temperature, cheerleaders are always analysing without active participation.

Know yourself "skills and goals", know your enemy "what influences decisions", know the terrain "playing field and its characteristics".

I Stand Accused (Long Version) - Isaac Hayes
Tina Turner In Your Wildest Dreams 
LICENCE TO KILL HIGH DEFINITION
LIQUIDEEP - Still
Settle Gladys Knight
Seal - Love's Divine 
Sometimes I ask myself when I hear someone saying that person isn't natural. You can enhance a thing, the body in parts but who can hide an over inflated look on a persons face or body posture. When you've been with someone for a long time and actually cared for them and a tone or body posture changes its an instant indication of some influence. A guy who walked with his head bowed down for most of the time and never looked you in the face all of a sudden has a body posture with a risen head, hands on his hips, stare you in the face, trotting in your house like its his with a risen chest clearly showing an arrogant demeanour.

Reading body language is useless when you haven't been intimate with a person, which is why character profiling always has errors and more often its in the actions and its subsequent results that holds more weight than insinuations.

In understanding military tactics studied while in Russia as part of a curriculum grade 6-7, it's easy to go unnoticed because I have spent an enormous amount of time since I was 8 in disciplining myself as regards both personal and career wise, someone who quietly works in her own corner doesn't disturb any one but being shoved from side to side develops a personality that many don't know how to deal with. My question is what's the need in clearing a player of the field because you can't mark and match the skill and speed? That's rough play and when caught why beg the referee for pardon when clearly a red card or an obvious expulsion from the field is even mercy in comparison to what was done. You can cripple a person for life and some don't even come out alive from the field, and there are those cheerleaders who if just a%age of an experience is tested on them will run for cover. Africa is what it is because we let things slide until no point of return. To stand and accuse someone who has been of help only because the truth scares you leads to the realisation of the watchers that the world has no justice and in return they themselves start acting in similar fashion, I just hope that others sons and daughters aren't treated that way as was permitted for one because he had an excuse or for some reason convinced others in his rightfulness.

Arrogance is to presume there will be no payback, confidence is to accept consequences even if no deliberate action was taken at a point in time which is why I open up to let everyone know that no one is a fool for giving apt time to reconsider their emotional actions towards anyone. Only children behave in despicable ways.

Fearing She'll Forget You
Ciara - Stuck on You
I have no issue with people speaking behind my back, the more I tell them not to the more they provoke me by doing so, assuming I don't hear. The issue with most people who are left behind is they come to disturb you even more than before, so how do you stop pests? You open up all and have them stand embarrassed for their hasty conclusions.

There is an illusion that possessive people create for themselves. Where in the first relationship/marriage they were holding someone down in the other they create an illusion on "she was free to do what she wanted, I never told her not to" meanwhile if you watch the mode of communication you will notice that from physical possessiveness it turned into verbal possessiveness, even using a joking demeanour with negative connotations or methods of distraction. Creating trouble under the pretext of not being able, or inaccessible and financial restrictions.

Those equipped with psychological intuitiveness can detect easily those tones and behavioural patterns. Sensitivity with such people doesn't exist, they are constantly creating restrictions on a mental level, they question every action rather than paying attention, through that quarrels start happening. It's widely known that the natural thing that people who don't know a situation do is to accuse the hurt party of being a baby and that they should wake up etc, now what that does is it shuts a person down and that tension builds up, which eventually blows up in ways that no one expects, people commit suicsides and or results in murder, hence we have such situations happening in society with kids and adults alike.

When someone has made extensive efforts to raise oneself from what ever situation they faced in a relationship and starts to breathe again it should make sense to those around to stop who ever was violating the space of that person.

Girls for protective and possessive reasons of parents have been over cultured which disturbs them while in dates that they wish to turn into a "marriage" what that in effect produces is a state of mind that is inhibited. Inhibited girls become needy and in effect also makes them greedy as materialistic tendencies are cultured by parents efforts to focus girls to choose partners for life and by that compromising their ability to be passionate. 
When boys that have nothing meet girls who say my father said "I shouldn't date you because you are not a suitable candidate" they have focused their child towards materialism rather than culturing independence in thought and deeds where she is able to negotiate her life with a potential suitor who matches not the pocket but skills. A girl that has never worked would not know her strengths and her fear will turn even a little advantage into a weakness. 

If men go out to cheat then it speaks of not having the bang that he wants. Boys are not cultured as people found it much easier to restrain girls as they are more inclined to listen. Speaking to a boy is harder as there emotions are abound, most parents with boys are facing this difficulty. Train your daughters to handle business and they will know how to handle their relationships both self and others in it, rather than calling them loose or other derogatory words.
In effect these are a few reasons why intimacy between couples starts to dwindle. Girls who know how to are labelled whores and are dumped by unexposed to knowledge boys, sometimes boys deliberately derogate their partners "dates" as a way to move on, which i find quite a low tactic. When boys come home happy with girlfriends the parents instead of encouraging a bond between them often label their girls/wives as loose eventually after being in such a connection and it breaks it lingers in the subconscious and often manipulates the person through out their marriage life, should there be no affection between a couple and an x appears the marriage is now put under question. A guy may not cheat but a flirt can cause more damage as attention is diverted from one party to the other, is it justified? Depends on the stage of degradation a relationship is in. Lady Diana.
  • Comments
    • Edede Aziegbe Relationships degrade and can settle.
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    • Alsu Ekinadose Odemwingie thats between those who are in succh situations to decide.
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    • Jeffrey Odigie Good one. Much facts all stucked together. Would have loved it if you expanded on it more stage by stage at different levels.. I want to believe it was put together in a hurry. Anyway the points are clear if you could decipher the message. Thanks for a good write up. Thumps up Alsu. These are the things I want you to come up with more regularly.
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      • Alsu Ekinadose Odemwingie i would have thought that you know it all since you are so good at criticising Jef
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      • Jeffrey Odigie Yes I do, but for others I spoke. In view of the importance of the topic raised I made the undergoing comments to help create necessary attention to it. Don't worry about me much or my criticism. Iron sharpens iron you know. I am ready to call your bluff on intellectual discuss and synthesis any time.....* wink*.
        Have a nice night. More oiling to your sinuses. Remain good. But don't forget " train up a child the way he should grow... ....
        Respect.

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      • Alsu Ekinadose Odemwingie speak for yourself, what you did was what they call innocent.
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      • Jeffrey Odigie Thanks. I see it as a discuss and nothing more to it. It has nothing to do with me so I am just as OK as I am. I already spoke of my self when I said " anyway the points are clear...... Thanks for the good write up." How possible you missed that. I don't have much to add. Thump up again.
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      • Alsu Ekinadose Odemwingie review what you wrote there and you will see for yourself what you did.
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      • Jeffrey Odigie OK next time I will do better..... Ding ...ding.
        You can do with a smile and don't get too seriously perturbed by little things. Spice up girl.

        mment...


When parents are middling in the bond between a couple they are often expressing envy for what they don't have or never found, it helps if there is an opposing member who stands for a couple rather than separating them and there are times when a tactic is applied to bringing people together should one wish to. I have had to take extreme action in such situations with people I know and hopefully they are together. I don't intefer except asked which is why I haven't gotten any negative feedback till now. This isn't said to make anyone feel bad nor me being a matchmaker but clearly when people call for help I am there to see it through. I don't know how some take it upon themselves to separate people without a clear heart. Those who are emotionally invested in a couple to part but pretend to be for them often produce the intents rather than the objective.

A friend doesn't pacify they balance with discuss. To patronise someone's ego into an oblivion results in the effects one sees in relationships. I am simply direct as I am detached from any form of need towards anyone's approval or help so I don't play politics neither in my relationships or towards others, can't see how helpful it is being tangled in emotional tantrums of insecurities. If a guy doesn't want wove on, what people don't see is I have moved on, I am communicating experiences for others to take note why it didn't work for me other than that there is nothing attached except the kids. Most men find it easier to hop and go, I would hate to believe it's that easy but that's my reality.

Luther Vandross - When You Call On Me/Baby That's When I Come Runnin'
If a person is waiting for a special invitation what usually happens is that it may never happen, there are different situations that prevent people from being together such as resources, there are people I know who can't afford to fly or certain governmental policies prevent them from being with each other sooner than later, to those I say if there is a mode of communication is kept then it can be bearable should it prolong then only God can help them.

Leona Lewis-Homeless 
A homeless person isn't someone who has no physical place, a dimension of unsettled, thorn apart, certain factors that keeps a person from being able to give what they wish to give the other. It's time that people start seeing beyond the physical and more on a spiritual plane that isn't setting them free. There are past bondages that keeps people wondering the earth even if they are static in one place. Being manipulated is also a factor even if no one can see with the physical eye.

To be homeless is also to have no basis for believing and infatuations can become illusions. People need to open their hearts and minds before certain truths can be understood. There are 10 year olds who are much smarter about life than many 50year olds and their age is limited by oppressive and possessive beings.

Needing Vs. Wanting
All-4-One - So Much In Love 
ОлСг Π“Π°Π·ΠΌΠ°Π½ΠΎΠ² - ВСнь бурСвСстника 
Janet Jackson - Tonight's the Night 
This topic actually evokes an attitude simply because those who are saying what or who do you want should first ask themselves if they can provide a solution to a demand. Needing and Wanting are active based terms that is usually identified between two people.

Let me blast this topic from an emotional standpoint. People are tying to convince me that I need a man because they can't fathom how it is that someone wishes to live alone, well those who have been on their own since they remember themselves aren't scared by that factor, a dildo can replace a nag, unfortunately guys will develop blisters wanking or worse will become disillusioned not having one place to call home. The bullshit that guys play when having someone who is there for them is ego, why mess with your own life for the sake of a fleeting emotion of power or supremacy? That's lame and weak, why I don't fight exes? is because they help to remove those who want to go so she actually freed me from a nag, I honestly hope that peter actually ends up with her together so that the guy can finally find peace in his life rather than tormenting a soul that loved him without any second thought. Surprise surprise guys think that only girls nag, opsie  daisies don't we know that insecure men can drive a woman away from the house?

Annie Lennox - I Put A Spell On You
The chaos that exists in the world today is as a result of those who assembled the bible and those who keep traditions that violates them themselves.

CΓ©line Dion & Jean-Jacques Goldman - J'irai oΓΉ tu iras  
Stuart Townend - Let The Earth Resound
Jodi Benson - Part of Your World
Michael Jackson - You Rock My World 
Enya - Sumiregusa (Wild Violet)
For the most part the battles between man and woman Is for supremacy a lazy person will always look for a reason to dump on another responsibility. There are situations where a girl falls pregnant, she asks him for an abortion when he voices out displeasure or acts up, if the guy says he can't be responsible for that then what is a guy responsible for? You fuck, have a good time, a mistake happens and you don't want to take care of it? If the girl packs her load and puts it in front of him he surrenders, after proceeds to mistreat her because in his heart he really had no intentions whatsoever to commitment. Is a girl a fool for believing? Then they have another one and it's still a mistake? To what level should consciousness be brought to a society who labels a girl a gold digger meanwhile the guy is as poor as a church mouse.

Michael Jackson - Will You Be There
U2 - A Room At The Heartbreak Hotel
CΓ©line Dion - I'm Your Angel
It's wonderful to watch a world cheering sharks that are after lives but when exposed through fighting back is lynched. If I hid what I write about in songs i'd probably make more money rather than sharing, people put their emotions into sounds yet people don't see a human being behind the fasad.

After putting time 4 years ago into leadership topics I was scrutinised for who is that girl, now attacked for striping down the source. I hail those who call themselves friends yet don't know who they speak of behind my back they dint even know how ill I was.

The Miseducation Of Lauryn Hill- Intro
COUNTRY GRAMMAR
When someone says the truth they call you a lier, when you are honest they tempt you.
John Legend - Ordinary People
Eros Ramazzotti - C'Γ¨ una strada in cielo
What is infatuation? An illusion one was made to believe until the results show who one was but void of what one has become.

Welcome To My World - Jim Reeves
Vanessa Williams Just For Tonight
Will Ferrell Bio | Life and Career | Filmography 
KISS - Calling Dr. Love - Brooklyn Bridge
Let's Be Friends First
Ed Sheeran - I'm A Mess 
Sade - Smooth Operator 
Lil' Kim - No Matter What They Say 
Missy Elliott - Work It 
Snoop Dogg - Drop It Like It's Hot ft. Pharrell Williams
deadmau5 ft. Gerard Way - Professional Griefers 
Friendship is a state of being rather than a state of heart. Considering that people have been cultured into seeing each other based on sex "gender diferentiencial" qualities there comes the problem. Assuming and endorsing upon a society that girls ought to like skirts and shoes and should be domiciled opens a can of warms that compromises any potential for relationship.

Girls are for the most part gentle physically but the experiences that they may have been through apart from understanding that genetics "accumulated experiences through family" makes for the large part who someone is its what determines how she handles matters.

I want to avoid being sexy on this topic as focusing on friendship is of essence to me at this point. I reserve my tenderness which is specific to every person I have ever dated. We are all interconnected "bond" through how we feel about ourselves and towards the other. If sex is a sensual state of mind it would help people to check their state of mind at the time before attributing bad or good to the other. I've always met mamas boys so in that aspect I reserve my opinion as it is evident where I am at.

The aspect of cheating is dual someone could be staying put but their mind isn't there and there are people who one will never know what's going on anyway. There is one thing for sure, those who I call friends are friends nothing more or less. I play with friends it's often a physical buddy thing, rough-full their hair, maybe a smack or 2 for being silly about a matter that they should be serious about. So just generally a tomgirl, guys that try telling me to pretend to be other than what I am often get a boot. I gat G's is more fun than discussing what ever girls do. By the way I have always had friends older than me and my younger acquaintances I treat like siblings.

If I ever do look like a lady its because I just feel like it in the moment, if I didn't have Facebook I'd probably never do it, well it was a plan for certain projects that were in mind apart from wanting to see how I would look, I am daft that way.

Why Do You Want What You Want?
Celine Dion - Mon Ami M'a QuittΓ©e 
Sean Paul - My Name [DUTTY ROCK]
Psycho Suite - Bernard Herrmann 
JAY-Z - Dirt Off Your Shoulder
Kanye West - Gold Digger ft. Jamie Foxx
Kanye West - Heartless
Kanye West - Runaway (Video Version) ft. Pusha T
Save the Last Dance (4/9) Movie CLIP - I Was Dancing While She Was Dying 
Save the Last Dance (6/9) Movie CLIP - Maybe We Should Cool It 
Enigma - Push The Limits
Elvis Presley & Carrie Underwood I'll Be Home For Christmas
Ben E. King - Amor
Ben E King - Gypsy
Daddy never really restricted me so the concept of why I want what I want isn't subjective ie it isn't about my self, I am a family based person so my views and actions are seldom about myself from a selfish stand point.

What do I want, hmmm that's something that is hard for me to identify as spontaneity is my way of going though things, I sure have been a structured kind of person with my moments.

As regards decision making its plain, I don't hesitate when acting on plans or going for who I want, I take a No easy even though never really had much hassle in getting through to someone as I am not testosterone driven except for work.

In all honesty if my kids will disturb my intimacy I will ship them off to friends or family, I simply don't see a reason to compromise my intimate life for kids who will eventually leave the home. Ain't looking to boring myself in anything I do least in bedσΎŒ©πŸ˜ˆσΎ £πŸ˜ŽσΎ”

Resisting Temptation & Weakness
I'd reference temptation as weakness, what ever is out of balance creates tension that results to problems. As regards what applies to business its a lack of will to try.

Strengths and weaknesses is tied to timing either match or mark goals against each other or freestyle to create.

Guys that lie are often glittery, if a guy lies to get a girl he automatically becomes paranoid if he gets to like her. Main reason why most people loose out on great times to create memories that sustains towards union, some girls like me are to loyal to our word, that keeps us stuck. No promises, action speaks louder. Girls that are tomboys always know how to call a guy on a bluff as she thinks in the same pattern but chooses to be braver.

Gotten morghen, for who morning for who evening for who midnight, just made some sweet and sour pork and Chinese fried rice, hope to make you all hungry hehe come join me, need to lubricate my stomach before work starts.

Guys that are too obvious are boring, saying something like "I like you" ok well if you didn't you wouldn't have approached.

Asking a girl if she is nice or just pretending errm at that moment I will drag my buddies for him to ask, I am the type that can sit in the same bar with my ex and chat up a guy who dares to approach. Isn't that just nice? I am not made for the weak hearted even if I am soft, boo who you or me? Guys with ulterior motives often ask the wrong questions only after some time you get to see what their behaviour is like and then it becomes too late when a girl falls head over hills with her own illusions. Can be heart breaking to be disillusioned in ones choice.

When a girl gives a guy a chance because she is also looking for a chance to feel again she often ends up in the wrong hands. When a girl puts a guy through hell it seems to work more efficiently, not with all but on an average guys like it hard as the chase seems to make them feel they have something to work towards, as soon as you make it easy they take you for granted. Go figure what really works for a girl like me.

A guy calls to ask can I see you tonight, yes if you like him. By the way guys tend to be amused with girls who take care of their car "hand washing" than their hair. Still beats me why would that be such a strange thing if not it indicates that most women pretend. Is that a strategy for attracting and retention? What a waste of time.

Guys that ask for a helper Angel  from above should mind for what intent they make such requests, take the messenger for grated and she becomes your worst nightmare. A blow job turns into a handshake.

I suppose this pleaser thing is widely an error on both sides as there are girls and boys who are cultured into being pleasers for the most part girls, as that's how parents shape their girls to be. Pleasing is agreeing to everything and anything, in my opinion that has to happen in the bedroom.

Attention seekers are often those who pick on literarily everything that a person does or says in order to control them. Psychological attacks is a tendency either conscious or subconscious desire, meanwhile it puts a girl like me off, desire to attract attention to oneself should be by adequate actions than verbal attacks. As a girl I always cut that attitude with a direct confrontation because it's daunting to always be looking for excuses on why a guy is grumpy. Grumpy guys are attention seekers, happy guys are often active and if there is an issue they speak straight rather than complain about something they could have been solving themselves especially when they create the drama.

Guys who are used to their mothers running after them are never happy with what is given or done for them. Which is why I leave my kids to do stuff for themselves deliberately, sleeping through while they get themselves ready for school, even my maid is told that she isn't hired to do stuff for them but to help me sort things out. Kids that are brought up by nannies or dotting parents barely know nor do they want to do anything, that's breeding laziness from the start. Mother hens breed snakes for kids,

Personally I don't understand long distance relationships, guys who like to do that are only looking for a turn on on the phone. It's ok for a time but after that can turn into a hey buddy thing. I am a hands on gal in business and personally so I don't see how a guy can get his way especially on a martial situation. Inhibited guys always hide, forgetting that they are dealing with a gal who thinks like a guy as well as trained in practice to speak and handle people by germans, is a Tatar Russian Nigerian who knows languages, traveled and isn't lazy. Try getting past my mind with all that background and experience. I am overwhelming for the average thinking guy and i can't pretend to help myself simply because i will hate myself.

By the way peeps those who are prone to lie often mess with their own metabolism, what happens is that it's a natural doping that happens because the energy it takes to keep up with pretence produces hormone exchange that makes them sleepy, same effect on those who are surrounded by liars they become depressed, lies has a natural blinding effect which is why liars tend to misquote themselves, so I wish everyone a lovely time at deceiving themselves while I remain who I am hiding in plain sight. Did I say that I lie to liars? Well anything I say would be a lie to them anyway until it's to late.

In basketball there is more contact and less space for sitting and waiting, it's dynamic which doesn't leave space to being dull. Whereas in football lots of time is wasted on running from one end to the other, as mentioned before when people are overly focused on their feet/steps they tend not to see what's ahead except they stop look around and hear someone from a distance. In basketball it's constant contact with a single mindset that considers all options as shooting through players into a hoop has lower probability except when practiced intensively, this isn't to say football is bad but understand the psychological effect it has on people who are playing or fans of the game.

For the most part football players are  active at work and procrastinators in relationships, always looking for the best option can make a guy miss out on what's important to do when in contact, as face to face is often a problem. When Emotions take over it reflects through aggressiveness.

Basketball in girls cultures an active mind which often provides stability within but may be chaotic on the outside, makes parents weary, in my case I have practiced an array of sports so I switch due to circumstances. Fly like a butterfly, sting like a bee.

My major problem Is i take myself for granted but when I am done I am done, same with work, I don't think that I am all that but when I work I work. I am not a workaholic I just replaced one for the other since it wasn't there.

Everyone needs to give themselves an excuse especially when it's given deliberately/repetitively by others. If you don't know when you've had enough then things will continue.

People leave jobs not only because they aren't paid adequately but for being spoken to rudely without being discriminative, people often ask for a raise not only when they need it but as a pacifier for taking crap, people request for a higher pay as a way for tactfully resigning from positions that compromises their integrity.

When I cook I cook because I like to, not to please or draw any guy but as a way of enjoying with friends instead of boozing at the club, it's just a different activity. Have and I always do that, some may think I am trying to please to attract meanwhile I like to see people smile and enjoy themselves, just as much as putting them off should they ask for it.

if going to a bar in nigeria for a girl is considered being a whore then have home parties invite friends and say bye bye, next time you meet them at the club buy them bear so they stop seeing you as a babe for play. I've done that since i was 16 and it works, as guys only chase girls that behave like bimbos "without wit". Sorry but there is no way to put it lightly. That's a Tom girl for you she knows how to keep the distance without offending any one and everyone remains friends. I can sleep with a guy butt naked and nothing will happen, women should stop seeing themselves as tools then they wouldn't be used and should you be taken for granted you mess with them back.

I hate one night stands, I'd rather fuck his brains out for weeks and then we can decide if we want to take it further. How hard can it be to be direct? He says lets date for 3-4 years before we decide, she says if after a year they don't know where they are at then best to end it there and then. Why would guys date for years and then dump a girl, while creating circumstances that leads her on?

Fire Ants Stick Together to Survive Flood
Beyonce - I Was Here (Official Video)
Labrinth - Beneath Your Beautiful ft. Emeli SandΓ©
Labrinth - Jealous
I'm not made of steel
A one directional mentality never sees options, a multi dimensional perspective exists in people who are colour, shape and gender blind. What is substance? Character. To see beyond the physical is to adequately judge a circumstance and identify what are the characteristics of a situation in order to sort things out, this does not mean it's an instant solution but a progressive journey towards an objective solution, should people not hear what is being said they are likely to put themselves in trouble. If one is told look right also look left, blind people always get hit by a blind driver behind the wheels.

Consequences of inaction in crucial moments leads to sorrow, when people are greedy, envious of their siblings or partners they are likely to be manipulated into stupid acts, just because someone speaks does not make them an enemy.

To be afraid of a parent can lead a child into attacking his own, never seeing who is manipulative out of pain. Kids are running headless because a society is structured for gain rather than a blend of values that creates harmony.

CΓ©line Dion - Then You Look At Me
SMILE sung by Michael Jackson
Nelly Furtado - (Official Swiss American Federation Remix)
R. Kelly - The Storm Is Over Now
CΓ©line Dion - Think Twice
Babyface - The Day (That You Gave Me A Son)
Save A Life - Shaggy & Friends
Michael Jackson - Bad
O Captain, my Captain! | Thank you to Robin Williams 
Ethan Hawke Dropped Out Of College For "Dead Poets Society"
Why do we read and write poetry? (Dead Poets Society)
When people start questioning you without basis, throwing bias instead of asking questions about the source of ones ability, when your family becomes a target for prying eyes, know there is danger. Pleasers are often envious then, they act in ways to bring one down.

What has age got to do with ability? Are we equating minds ability to perform based on age or something as fleeting as physical stature? Aren't job metrics set for evaluating persons for manual labour rather than aptitude? Someone's IQ is  increased based on a variety of factors, such as will for the most part, with a component called interest which people seldom want to acknowledge is real, buffing of a child or youth by degrading their self esteem in what ever it is they do is and act of jealousy.

Why do we read and write poetry? (Dead Poets Society)
Bored people turn people off by being disinterested. Happy people are excited about anything and everything that revolves around their focus and with that they meet their objectives regardless of what others think of it or not. They often go into their own corner and conjure up even greater things than before, sometimes it's a blessing when someone is taken for granted or buffed off as that gives the space to concentrate, those who are interested usually give support in any form one way or another.

Being interested in being productive pushes people into asking questions that are relevant to a matter rather than expressing doubt or clear negativity.

I am never bored the things that go through my mind sometimes overwhelm me because I can't seem to stop the visions or dreams I see while asleep, it's same as when my brother was growing in his sport, his is a physical activity while mine revolves around people, things anything that gave me experience be it technical or related to life.

I am the type that wouldn't draw anyone by force into anything, I show and if a person responds then I proceed, half the time people ask me what I do and the fire sparks so being told that I speak business with everyone I meet is a projection of a person who simply gets agitated when attention is shown to his girlfriend or wife and their tendency is to disturb by nagging that the girlfriend or wife is never at home so when you dump all and face family you are again told that you are not busy so pretty much nothing is ever good enough and that simply created a vacuum within and disinterest towards having any form of conversation ceases.

In work environments its the same there are bosses that take out their frustrations  and regardless of what ever one submits it's always wrong at that point I simply refocus from external work towards my project. I have been working since I was 16 in little jobs until I landed my first job at Strabag these are experiences and all of these issues relates to HR management. If teaching methods are focused on frustrating youth then why ask why kids are dropping out, if they are told that that's the only option then they find themselves all through their lives disillusioned and eventually when they graduate the employers end up inheriting the array of emotions that hinder a business from growing, eventually leading to a shutting down, for the most part businesses suffer not because of lack of finance but emotional persons at the job positions.

I'd rather hire a kid from the streets without a degree and brush them up than a miserable adult with a certificate, it's just how it is but given that the business world only respects an adult who looks like an adult even if they may not have a clue it becomes hell in pushing them out to the market.

I've always been a bad student because I asked questions teachers didn't want to answer for what ever reason.

In school I would sit at the very back and simply scribble on anything, always looked forward to my literature class and was always horrified to recite poetry, I usually froze and even if I knew them all couldn't author a word. I've always been overly conscious of my difference in size, colour and shape. For the most part i like to hide, It's just how I am. Being ok with being different openly came to me when I was 21 even though I was a social child, I am more likely to mouse around "mingling", dancing sure helped at the clubs from 14, doing hip hop and gradually to who I am now, still hiding but better. I am more of a mental person than an outward being as those who are used to it.

Finding Forrester (6/8) Movie CLIP - Are You Challenging Me? 
Finding Forrester (1/8) Movie CLIP - The Key to Writing 
Communication: Reactions vs. Responses
When teachers and adults who are placed to watch over kids give reverence to a book more than the human mind and heart and soul then there is a huge problem.

300: Rise Of An Empire Trailer (Medley:Imperatrix Mundi and War Pigs) by L'Orchestra Cinematique
Touchez Pas Au Grisbi ( Grisbi Theme )
All Too Well Taylor Swift 
"I'll Be There For You" - Backstreet Boys
In my office I blow the roof and it's never about a person but a task, not to the students but with the managers as at 2006 we are always fighting and that's fun because it shows people are interested, those who run are not interested. Professional battles between colleagues is an afrodiziac  however if the director is biased or inhibited in any way the discuss often goes personal rather than on technical grounds. I am not talking about the medical world for instance but the entrepreneurial environment it's always about debates, issues, drawing solutions/conclusions on matters that affects literarily every facet of life and work, so being weary of image is what kills flow. I don't care attitude should apply to self awareness around peers than on a subject matter.

Robin Williams - "Seize the Day" - by Melodysheep
When a youth is within an environment that has no demand for her skills what's left is to find an application for self, when her looks determines her fate with men then she is turned into a tool, the only option is to fight even if smudged with mud on her face. I hail thee Africa.

The hardest part for a girl like me is being around men or people who are constantly demanding emotional loyalty meanwhile they create the inconsistencies that questions the desire to stand by their side.

Standing by someone who isn't aware of his actions turns everything to not, so in this respect I simply make no promises nor do I demand any. People who have self respect often know how to see when someone stands by them be they near or far. I have never been insecure about myself even if put in compromising situations, the least I do is ask why someone or investigate why people behave in certain manner/ways, should there be no answer or a physical attack is taken I simply move away or respond in same fashion.

The ugly truth elevator scene
Most natural orgasmic moments are through first kisses, that determines what the sex would be like, which is why you find guys and girls either being put off or put in towards continuing dating. Should there be no true affection it resonates in the energy that transpires between the two.

The Ugly Truth - Dance [Gerard Butler & Katherine Heigl]
K3G - You Are My Soniya | Kareena Kapoor, Hrithik Roshan
Wonderful Merciful Saviour - Women of Faith.
Throttleneck by Brad Paisley
Tank - On My Way (feat. J Valentine) 
Dancing is an outward expression of desire, whereas behind doors discuss creates intimacy. When people make a meal together it binds them, breakfast in bed is cute but making it while brushing through with each other creates the energy. Learning to flirt is an art of wit, interchanging witty opinions.

Shout To The Lord Don Moen
Parents that are affectionate and playful with their kids are indirectly teaching their kids how to, some are thought and some have that by nature. Playing with kids ie running around the table chasing each other, hugs, words expressing gratitude for an effort, limit the physical representation of appreciation that teaches them to be attentive rather than focused on an object which could mean nothing. In relationships such as flirting words are interchangeable with gifts, gifts are surprises while words are expressions.

My bro knows how to do all that stuff cos that's how mama is, as regards dad he thought me how to handle myself in business which appeals to most guys as that mundane lipstick, hoodoos don't surprise guys, apart from that dull people can seldom hold a conversation without a prompt, walking silent is also a method of creating intimacy. So I am not likely to be a chatter box after the phase of excitement is over.

Men have to start recognising what indicates the emotional state of their women or they will forever sleep on the couch. Every person is unique so being attentive is important to watch and give attention are two ways of knowing who you are with.

Not every guy has money to shower their lady with gifts so what should be used in order to woo you fair maiden? Music, text messages, made dinner, these are gift gestures. What does an 18year old need? Flowers or expressive notes. Simple things put smiles on people, and there are those who know how to put up a show.πŸ˜‡σΎ†’σΎ there is nothing shocking in what I present those who are interested will always find info on how on the web, the shock factor is that no one thought I would or am brave enough to show who I am and what I am.

Aretha Franklin - Angel
Robin Hood - F*cking Godfrey
The sad reality is that in church instead of being open with people about what causes issues in a society they are pacifying ignorance. Being direct to a couple about the nonsense they exhibit is different from saying God will sort it out, He wouldn't do for people what they should do for themselves. How hard can it be to be sin-sear to people? Hiding behind suits of richeousness yet people are in disarray.

R. Kelly - You Remind Me Of Something
Celine Dion- Tellement j'ai d'amour pour toi lyrics
Madonna - Die Another Day 
Does going to church change anything in your life positively? Do you come out able or do you just go there to pass time or pacify your emotions/ignorance? Why if your life or ways haven't changed would you keep going there? Looking for women in the church only to delude yourself about what a girl is you will end up in a trap, the girl on the streets you rule out as unworthy. How daft can men be led by crafty men into a den then dying in silence because how can but I met this woman in church meanwhile she keeps the pretence not giving any intimacy only to keep that image/illusion whereas forcing the guy to look outside. I honestly feel bad for p.f because he allowed a prune for a mother and harlot for a sister to shape his whole life. I feel sorry for so many men that I call brothers whose eyes are filled with sorrow for lying family and friends, all miserable in their own pot.

Madonna - Frozen 
Star Wars crawl
Has anyone ever wondered how a hurt person feels? Watch a horror movie and you will be able to picture the intensity within a person who has been violated, since a sense of sensitivity doesn't grasp itself in those who act in dispeakable ways.

Jennifer Lopez - 12. Talk about us
One doesn't have to be hurt for them to know what compassion is towards another, its a being in soul that is aware they are not the only one on earth, consideration towards another is rooted out by religious dogmas and traditional values that takes advantage of the young. Those who refuse to repent are often punished through generations, I feel bad for those kids who chose not to separate themselves from bondage. Call on your ancestors for help when another family tries to mess with you, they know better who is at fault even if you are blind. Spirituality what is it?

12. Un bel di vedremo Madama Butterfly, Act II Aria - Giacomo Puccini
Tupac - Hellrazor
Coolio ft. L.V - Gangsta's Paradise 
2Pac - Changes ft. Talent
Warren G - Regulate ft. Nate Dogg
Coolio - I'll C U When U Get There
3T - Tease Me
askalsu: Sherlock on the lock or luck?
Nelly, Fergie - Party People
If going to a therapist means being brainwashed to think like them then hey why isn't it working? Perhaps because the projected standards of keeping up an image of having a family life is an illusion? Therapist who pose to have an excellent marriage will never give the right answers, best to go to a prostitute and ask them what lay in the miseries of societies. Ever wonder what the symbol of Mary Madeline washing the feet of Christ was? I suppose those who assembled the bible would hate to put her image next to Christ so men can be deluded by a prestige.

Nigerian boys who have been taken advantage of abroad are causing mayhem in the hoods in return for being sold out, when will it stop? The whole of the south region is plagued with insecurities and you want your kids to come back home?

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