Why do women insist?

"Why do women insist on native, church and legal ties and not just one?

Women need to be protected spiritually, financially, and culturally! The events however don't guarantee any success if in the heart of either party loyalty to the principle of care isn't present! Which is why women should do it for themselves! The day man dosnt feel trapped is the day a woman will submit! Men feel they don't need same securities, yet when any and all of this is taken from them they have all guns blazing!
Which is why a woman should just let a guy who dosn't want to marry them in any of the following ways go. One or 3 don't matter! Where was Adam when the serpent came? She was idle! While man was grazing!

Trying to persuade someone dosnt work! Which is why men love women who don't love them and later cry wolf who opened up! This dosnt mean that the woman who you are married to dosnt love you! Men don't appreciate easy, doesn't mean the one who makes it difficult loves you more! Just don't deny the lady the opportunity to give you more! A nun isn't better than a slut, they both have their wahala! Its the one that you can carry you choose and you all are wondering why women have shut their hearts, mind and soul, but left their legs apart?
Its not the women demanding for security! Its society saying to you; We need security to survive as man kind or we will be used as fuel like dinos to the next generations!

We are all born in sin, living in the pains of our fathers and mothers hurts! Parents respect your kids and children will honour you! God loves you because of your truth seeking heart, not because you think you are transactionally smart! Humans fall reguardless of financial security because they refuse to imbibe spirituality and understanding of systems! Change is inevitable, you either high with it or against it, the bruses are yours anyway! Reduce your risks by facing the obvious reguardless of it scares the life out of you!"