Children are not kids!

Children are not kids! They are little adults. Just because their communication channels aren't developed doesn't mean they know nothing. Their senses are much more sharper than that of the adult whose vision is blurred by emotions! The manner with which you bring them up is the adults you will have.

In a harsh way, they will become harsh, in a fussy way they will be fussy. Kind for kind! Life however in the process undoes the mistakes of the parents bringing the child up! If the parents are of extreme character, another set of extremism meets the child! Life is neither kind nor cruel! It is created to develop balance within you before you reach the father and create another hell there!

Your kids will still be the adults they become "designed by God to be". Let go of possessive attitudes, you may just start enjoying being a parent.