Raped, Abused, Molested!

What happens to someone who is raped or abused or molested is that they stop being special, both in the eyes of the society and themselves. There is a spiral of self loathing that happens and very few know how to break out of it. The war that goes on within them is impossible to imagine. They are unable to treat anyone and themselves as special.

Every mistake that they make becomes another reminder of the pain that hasn't been healed. End the cycle of abuse by creating peace and give support. Don't blame them or yourself for not being there when it happened. Prevent such from happening by not pointing fingers and by empathy. If someone's experience frightens you, don't reflect it by pushing them away. They don't need pity, they need to stop living in that mentality and or physically.

The best way to treat someone as special, is not to create a special environment. It is to give them their space, weather to vent or to come out in their beauty and that means SPACE. You don't need to do anything just be there weather they run away or not, just be there.