Dont create the monsters!

There is no way to avoid heart aches no matter how much you know! I personally will refrain from giving any one of my kids advises on what to avoid! Id rather help those who are currently going through pain!

As a parent I have to be there to hold them strong and try help them through the hurdles! But i cant chose their paths or assume i know their destiny! When they say "see no evil do no evil", for me it also applies to dont create the monsters cos you will be opening a door for them to see what may actually not be there!

I loved passionately and I broke my heart with same passion and its worth every pain! I know I never loved in vain cos I discovered I could and still will! Of course with a bit more thought to how I react to things! I have learnt to ignore and not take things personal!

I never was a calculator and that has enabled me win every battle as soon as I recovered! I have no regrets despite the pain!