Online RadioMag GAGA! Sweet nothing's and heavy shit! Aha! Just I asking Jah WHY for a because answer and how simplicity turns complicated!
a "what if this" and a "what if that" to the equation of the HOWs in this world! Isn't it about the What's in reverse? Fun and diversity no restrictions.
The sum of human knowledge is now so immense that even a highly educated person can hope to absorb only a tiny quantum of it but experience can teach far more in 10 years. Pluto i am on a journey to the past and back to the future, today i woke up with a smile brought to me by the realization of how much i had experienced through a story of a gal who was in love with life. It came in many different faces and left to memory. This part of her life is called knowing self. Where maybe It showed me what the world was like. Her story sure revealed to me who she is and what she would become but until then she had to live through the journey. The saga of a girls journeys with love and with faith.
The set off of her life began when she saw a dream, a dream that put her in a frame of mind to stop the bad and let the good thrive. She and her father lived in a slum. He would leave her behind to go earn some money for 6 months at a time and she would be left with nothing but 1$ a day to survive on. She was a dutiful daughter a respectful child. During the time while her father was a way she would embroider throw pillow covers for sale. It was her way of not just to earn money but a way to pass time in order not to find herself in trouble on the dark streets of her neighborhood. She had over the years learnt how to defend herself both in mind and with matter. Her father didn't have enough money to put her through high school but in the better days before they lost everything she went to the best schools and learnt everything she could. She picked up books that her peers were studying in school and thought herself through practice, her favorite book was the good book.
She needed a job, she had a boyfriend who lived with his mother. She left him because every time she would go see him he would show her a side of himself that spoke to her that he was ungrateful for the care that he got. He was fed and was sent clothes from abroad by his sisters and every-time he came home he would throw them on the floor and would leave his mother to pick them up. She felt sad that he would take the efforts of his sister and mother to waste. On this faithful day she decided to leave him, she didn't know how best than to be straight with him about it. It was too late for her to go home so she stayed, in the middle of the night he forced himself on her. He wouldn't get off from her even when she said stop. They argued, he locked the door and through the screams in the room the mother came to try and unlock the door. She leaped out and on to the road. He tried to hold her but she left, riding away on a bike. She tried to remain friends with him and on one faithful night when she went out with him as a friendly gesture she found herself surrounded by his friends while he was trying to show them by gestures of putting his hands around her shoulders that they were still going out. She would pull away and that got him angry and he assaulted her in front of them, tearing her shirt. His friends wouldn't stand up for her as he fed them with stories of how ungrateful she was that he helped her to find a job. She left him for many other reasons such as inducting one of her childhood friends into fraud. But he wouldn't rest, he would come over to her house to taunt her, she pleaded with him to leave her alone, he would appear in at her friends house and tell her friend that he wants her back, but she wouldn't give in even when he brought his mother. After a time It seemed like it was over. She continued her life, she would go to work, take care of her grand mother and wait for the short days when her father would come back from his long trips.
She had a moment of happiness when a new guy came into her life, she knew him from the past. while she was still in search for a stable job he became her confidant, they would drive round town, but he too was staying in his family home. He was a student still, she was 18 and he was 21. He was what the other wasn't. Respectful to his family, helping his mother in her business, going to school and had good friends. She felt safe with him. His mother liked her, his friends respected her, but he had a cousin that was jealous of their relationship. While he was around she pretended to be nice but when he left she spread nasty rumors about her that broke their relationship. The jealous cousin told him that she had a relationship. While he was away he told her that while they were apart she could date but not who he knew but as soon as he was told he called her and broke it off while insulting her. She wouldn't give in to the taunts continued the short affair while focusing on her job. She understood that so long as she kept at building herself that men would come and go. She never wanted to be at the mercy of men supporting her life.
She left for another town after having a terrible rift with her father because he totally lost his mind to despair where he broke down and hurt her by trying to give her into obedience of the same person he protected her from all the years, He wasn’t just going off on trips to make money but to his wife and son. They were best friends and that was a thorn to his jealous wife and it crushed her to loose the last person she had. His wife had never been a mother to her. She really didn't feel bad about it because she had accepted that since she was 6 and so long as she stayed away from her and could leave her life without the constant taunts she could live with being her own mother! She was severely bitten by her and this didn’t involve any other reason at the time but her frustration and pain towards her husband.
Through out their marriage they fought mercilessly and violently and in the process neglected their responsibility towards their kids nor did they preserve the foundation for having a good life, she rooted out anything that he ever tried to do! During their fights people who saw this took advantage of their kids! But her dad accepted his responsibility and stood to build her up and separated her from his wife and left her to live with his mother and it is for this reason she stood strong regardless of what she went through. She refused to go into university as she saw what was going on there and took jobs the skills that today hold her strong!
Why do some feminists get uneasy when women make progress? My initial reaction to this question was to say "they will be out of jobs" however that would be incomplete. So long as macho exists feminism will thrive. Just went to you tube to search and understand feminism and what i saw was; Feminism: The Art of being a woman. What do men know about what it takes to be a woman if they are lost in translation within themselves about what a gentle man should be.
I never subscribed to be a feminist as that i think limits an individuals perspective on life. Before i proceed in telling someone what they should be i prefer to ask if its any of my business to know about who they are. Lebel's are for creatures not human beings and especially those who possess a higher reasoning to being. To most men i come across as hard, well check my experience and you will know that life makes you who you are with a touch of self determination added to the mix. If men are threatened by strength they usually bring out a negative aspect to their specie let alone if that strength comes from a woman. A gentleman sure knows how to melt the ice.
In the communist era in Russia women were having jobs just as the men and i didn't hear or see any man having an issue with the women climbing high tension wires as them. Communism in its good form means communally raising their country of its knees. I personally don't understand the USA and the tug of war between the men and the women. Is someone not getting blow jobs there? What is feminism if not a job description for women who stand up for women and children's rights because the men are slacking.
I attended a social meeting of women once and discuss on women independence etc in that regard arose and honestly it made me feel as though women think women are wimps. That offended my sensibility as that has never been how i saw myself. Yes maybe many women need to be protected physically from abusive men thats about how far it goes for me but when it comes to struggling for a place in the work world i think women should carve their own niche rather than squabble for positions that they could start off themselves.
If some actually knew how to support each other as men do maybe then men would become gentlemen, because honestly men will not take advantage of each other even if the guy is going down they will still keep his secret. What do women do? Don't get me started. The only tight group of friendship between women that i had witnessed is that of Sex and the City and it is a well scripted series, in real life behind the scenes did they get along?
I had an incident with my adopted daughter and her boyfriend at a time. He constantly taunted her with jealous comments and left her crying and defending herself which resulted in her almost loosing her job. After getting her word on the issue, i invited him to my house and in a motherly way told him that if he isn't careful he will not be the only guy she will be dating while he is still in the picture. He got the message clear as i also enforced it with his mama. Today he is a well behaved young man. In my home no man messes with any woman.
I don't struggle with men i deal with them, which ever way you wish to understand it for me its how you approach me is what you will get. A man may mess with my heart thats cos i allowed it but he can't mess with my mind and get away with it. The fear of the lord would be the beginning of wisdom. Women over from time in existence have cultured women and look at where it has gotten to. We had been made to be subservient, ever wondered why now we have to fight for freedom and rights including that of the innocent kids? Don't create walls that latter you would be forced to break down and remember the cornerstone that builders reject would be made head stone. If only they knew that there is nothing weak about a woman and giving that perception in the first place is what got the feminist movement fuelled more. If feminism is a way to stop governments from exploiting women and children then that is a political game an not a social problem. I'd rather piss the men off by fighting for the rights of Gay people. They are much more intelligent than the average Jane and Joe who can't seem to wipe their own behinds. Sue me. Some Gay men know how to make a woman feel like a lady, men should get some lessons from them.
"To know you must do. Information is useless when facts can not be presented or verified. Theory is an exploration of thought that leads to finding pathways to execute actions."
The difficulties you face are the opportunities you make, the bigger the better the harder!"
"Money- bragging rights."
"You dont need a man, you want one :) thats a mind frame! Can men handle that?"
"No one likes wise asses; who talk after a fight. who later stand up and say you should have done this while they were there and didnt do anything to prevent the situation."
Is this true?..........well gota learn to see a different truth but a bomb i surely am............vain i dont know. I have been labeled vain :) is it that i have opened someones vain? Yes it hurts but the truth will show you another way when you are stagnant."
"Envy says "why should he have all the choices"! Jealousy says "how can I bring her down"! Protect yourselves don't hide!"
"Most women don't make good business choices because they are too sentimental and most men loose power because they are rigid"
"Everyday the Lord creates new things, HE hasn't finished with us nor the resources within or outside our planet. HE is endless in the pursuit of perfection, HE strives for success. HE started and HE never ends. Imagination builds new things and HE made you in his own image."
"I loved with all, he didnt trust himself, i took my love away. Same happens in reverse but most often men loose their gift to lack of self esteem."
"Find the shepherd within, or you be the lost sheep!"
"Better to die for truth than exist in ignorance"!
"Every body hides, no one wants to be found, do you now realise why we are lost?"
When you are for real, then things will start happening for real".
Law of attraction. "when you start sending forth ideas good or bad they feed minds with what is possible. Mind your mind cos ideas never end".
"Education is governance; KNOW = principles of action, LEDGE= justification/excuse".
"Alliances made through bravery and friendship are always strong and can be mended if there is a crack!"
"What's the price of freedom? Your liberties".
"If you want to punish a rich man become wealthy hehehehehe"!
"That which you do easy is your talent! Practice it and you will be perfect"!
"Sometimes i wonder if christianity was introduced by women and islam by men"!
"Go higher not bigger! Everyone notices Tall not short! You are allowed to be a bigot for faith!"
"Do not seek wisdom understand your motives! Your motives has everything to do with your judgement"!
Why do good intentions go bad? When you rush to help without finding what went wrong!"
"Those who seek companionship find a friend, those who seek marriage find a foe.
"Deliberate acts dont evoke passion but may bring about progress regardless of who likes you or not."
"Don't twist the truth to buy time, it dosnt serve any purpose but brings more strife!"
"Dont hold on to the future, it is today that was given to you to use to its fullest."
"Those who have an attitude to life find it hard to bend. Attitude isnt a character."
"Those who hate are often guilty!"
Everyday do what will make HIM say "yeaaaaaaah that's my child!""
"In the rainbow I see colour's and in none of it do I see black or white! Now tell me where does racism come from?!?"
"There is always a way for change without losing old treasures!"
"Knowledge is hidden in information! How ever you interpret it is right for you!
Advice is always subjective! What you should isn't what you would!
"Circumstances do indicate but they dont have to dictate the outcome!"
"Your opinion of others isn't important if they can't change who they are however social rules forces everyone to behave outside the gates of their homes!
"Honouring oneself in the face of destruction is Ignorance!"
"But someone will say, "You have faith", I say "i have deeds." Show me faith without deeds and I will show you hope.
"Responsibility to people but duty to life."
"Madness and creativity are often linked, perhaps more in the minds of those who would oppose new ideas than in the minds of creative people".
"Learn to speak not talk".
"Business profit: whats the price to pay!?"
"What is true is different from the truth. Universal understandings is different from personal experiences".
"Sense isnt common when the dots are not aligned to bridge the gaps of coexistence."
"If your heart isn't influenced by your mind, your dreams will come true!"
"Its not about how you get it, its about how you achieve it! Tomorrow who was wrong will be right!"
"The thing way no de talk must answer I'm name! Guchi desired to be Guchi!"
"No be who sofa ooooooo! na who de goooooo ooooo! Get up and prosper!"
"If you don't prepare, why hope to succeed?"
"Even monkeys fall from trees. Everyone makes mistakes but don't leave them un-rectified!"
"When you think you can, you show the will to do!"
"Don't love, be passionate! Jump in and feel the passion that love brings when wanted!"
"I make deliberate mistakes, not perfect errors!"
"I hate standing alone on the mountaintop!"
"I love it when i shock my facebook status into silence, nice effect hehehe." silence is golden in this case it revealed the truth that no one argues with the truth."
"Imagination to things not man, no one should be made to live up to the dreams of others, that hath no wings!"
"What's the good in procrastination if it wastes your life away?"
"We have been made to BELIVE not UNDERSTAND."
"Demand loyalty when you are prepared to give it."
"White man isn't evil, black man isnt dark. The best man is who puts his head in and his foot out."
"If people do not know whats good for them they will elect their faith."
"What is wrong isnt often bad. Whats good isnt often right. May the best man win!"
"Diamonds will have no value if people are extinct! The wealth of the earth is in humankind!"
"Make deliberate mistakes, not calculated blunders. I prefer to be the fool so i know what is around me than an ideot who cares not."
"Things control you when you try to control things."
"A guy just told me "I have a mission", I asked "do you have a vision?" He replied "I walk away!""
"i was just told you need love from a man? bro we have that and toooo much; this world my be a man's world but it dosnt revolve around him."
"When your kids are used to seeing you fighting, it is hard for them to embrace you when you have made peace. They will be the first because of their innocence to poke holes to test if it is real! As a parent brining your child(ren) into your squabbles hurts them and destroys their zone!"
"He uses a child to correct your ignorance!"
"i no go school, i no learn book, but i sabi action. I am a dreaming pragmatic."
"The innocent carry no guilt, the ignorant leave in doubt!"
"To get on track you have to build the track!"
"It pays no nation to undermine the youth; they hold the future!"
"Creativity- break the rules in your mind to know where to bend them in action!"
"Don't get mad, get personal - don't destroy, attack.!"
"Passion can be defined not love!"
"There is nothing wrong but bad sure has been defined!"
"Hear the heart beat don't listen to it!"
"Don't change, make perfect!"
"Traffic lights- faith in action!"
"Why is it that when i joke no one takes me serious :)?"
"The average man dosnt belive in himself! Why would he be inclined to hear the truth?"
"Life- bond identity!"
"Hidden treasure is buried wealth!"
"The law of gravity says no fair jumping up without coming back down." All you have to do is bounce back! How high depends on your foundation!"
"We fight the new because it creeps in unexpectedly!
"He is greater than death, he gave you life! Live it!"
"Not everything works for money! Some things are earned in joy!"
"Your dreams are in your heart, follow them!"
"Accepting fate isn't faith!"
"The truth is a bummer, it forces you to wakeup into action. Its the bridge of fear that is left to conquer."
"When you start respecting the land you live in, it will give you the wealth you seek!"
"Your tears tell you who you are."
"Do not be afraid of making enemies, your friends will rise when fairness is broken."
"If you are worried about the syntax! You wouldn't feel the message! Life passes you by if you want it your way!"
"Those who keep others ignorant fall victims of it. You cant fly higher than the sky you've built."
"You being alive today means you have to act upon what is given."
"Be a good investor "banking" leave the change for the bankers."
"People dont want to go naturally, thats why death is a drama queen. They love life yet abuse it. Consciousness is asking life where am i going? Death is saying you are dead now if you are afraid of what you don't know."
"We have racism on a planet where God had created a variety."
"Parents don't know their kids when they for get who they are! Tyrants answer to their people!"
"If something matters it becomes the truth."
"Knowledge is powerful and to be sought after, yet we were given limited memory."
"Christ was not a pastor, he was a helper!"
"Why did Jesus seem contradictory when it came to family? He gave respect but never gave them power."
"Your soul mate is he or she who brings out the best in you!"
"Nicknames are more accurate than names."
"Every wrong turns alright. Mistakes are a way the universe stops problems! Move on to fill the loopholes!"
"People need to learn that success is worked towards not just some price you get while doing nothing....."
"Nothing is impossible! i-m-pos I can't; Imposed perception! Vantage points always exist."
"Very few have the positive mind to see good in any mistake! Show the middle finger and face your destiny!"
"My Mind accepts every possibility, my heart acts on what is right!"
"A leader is a BRIDGE."
"As soon as you say it, you are that much closer to making it true."
"You dont need power to show strength"
"Instincts arnt fears"
"An egg may be fragile but it carries your breakfast and so is a woman who bears life in her womb.
"God blesses us through our mistakes! We don't know what we invert by demanding perfection!
"We loose blessings because we can't accept why things happen exactly the way they do!"
"When someone slaps you, give them another cheek/smile; thank them because they just made you aware of an opportunity! Mathew 7."
"To embrace the world one needs long hands! Unfortunately we berly can hug ourselves!"
"Keep the flag rolling regardless of how you may feel. Anger, despair doesnt bring faith. Africa to you is different from Africa for anyone else. If we didnt love it we wouldn't feel so much pain."
What is the meaning of my life? We ask this question every now and then! We gather all the memories of spoken intentions and actions and it confirms that the meaning of your life is in WHO YOU WANT TO BE and the world is your play ground!"
"It realy Is ok if someone hurts you, but it sure is horrible to beat yourself about it!"
"There is always a story behing every achievement as well as failure. Do you live with it or work on it?"
"The more you worry the more negative energy you produce!"
"What will happen when all questions are answered? WHAT NEXT is left? What After all the what ifs we still havnt satisfied our fears of the unknown?
Why is there no end to time??? because we didn't invent it, we only defined it to the best level of our existence.
"Find me through what I believe in and try to live with my mind"
"In the process of hammering yourself you hurt others who are innocent!"
"The African hates himself and shows it through how they take care of their environment."
"I hope and then i deal with facts."
"If you don't ask, no one will seek, if you don't find no one will know!"
Why is there no Peace? Who said there is no peace???? Only a few are fighting!!!!
"Its boring to be one sided, the more doors you make the more angles to escape hahahahahaha thats why to be conservative is hard."
"Thou shalt not kill; although the law protects from physical harm, we also are liable for every word that comes out of our mouth! The Word is alive, because we have memory. Every word said affects people around you and it affects their actions! Unfounded, unjust, unrestrained words without purpose is just as violent as a gun!
"Everyone arrives regardless, the difference is did you choose your path/picture?"
"Exploration, extraction, production and use! 4 guiding principles of sustainability, everything else is just emotions management."
"Its often the search that looks hard, the solution is always waiting!"
"Your business true worth is in the knowledge that was generated in pursuit of the finished product, that's in the face of life is priceless than the physical evidence on the shelf with a price tag. You dont owe your client how you do it, all he can own is what he can buy."
Education shows through communication and execution."
"The mind sees what it chooses to see! Just heard it while Watching the "Da Vinchi Code" kind of makes sense! But then what influences vision is what those in charge of our flexible minds at birth make us believe! Check the core of your beliefs, if its based on what you experienced or what someone told you!"
“Wisdom, compassion, and courage are the three universally recognized moral qualities of men.” Confucius
You can only get wise when you've made mistakes and overcome them. You can only know courage when you face your fears. You only know compassion when you have been hurt. Experience beats all theories about life."
Sometimes i feel sorry for those who succumb to blackmail. You don't want to loose that which you took for granted? If something or someone was important to you at the time, wouldn't you cherish it? I am the type that keeps no baggage and will help the blackmailers to do a better job at taking me down. I will give them more than they think they have on me.
BILL GATES IN A RESTAURANT !!! After eating, he gave $5 to the waiter as a tip. The waiter had a strange feeling and disappointed look on his face after the tip.
Bill Gates(realised and asked): "What happened?" Waiter: "I'm amazed because on the same table your daughter gave a tip Of $500 and you his Father, the richest man in the world gave only five dollars($5)...?
Gates(smiled & replied with decent words): "She is the daughter of the world's richest man, but I'm the son of a wood cutter..." .
...... there are joys of remembering where you started! You don't have to pay a heavy price for being who you are."
There are always moments in your life where you feel down because certain things can't come true! A spousal dispute over kids welfare or one refusing to let go of what one took for granted and now trying to get back at you in the bid to justify themselves! Kids not being well maybe not making progress as you would hope they could! Family feuds! Etc This are normal event of life often times have nothing to do with you! Sometimes asking one not to worry can become quite irritating if not more painful than the event itself to hear! You are allowed to grieve! Feel bad as far as you can go for the moment and let it go when you are ready! Suppressing hurt is a form of self denial, it never goes away if you don't allow yourself the liberty of feeling! If today you feel this way, tell yourself its ok once in a while!"
Many wait for the moment, long enough later to understand that they should have lived in the moment. In realising this they start living in regret, rather than giving themselves another chance of living in the moments given every second. Hope is a bitch to him who waits on moments that pass by.
When you cage someone you fall victim of the box you created, there will always come the time when you yourself will need freedom to grow! Mind what rules you set you may have to break it someday! Always keep doors to the walls you create! Don't limit others and yourself to your past experiences even if it happened a minute ago!
