02/11/2012

The good are immortal!

The good are immortal! The bad die the moment they are born! This world is a Just world! What you live behind is what makes you live!

Why do we loose those we love and keep seeing those we don't? If someone young or loved one passes away in physical it was their time! He knows why! Celebrate those who made you happy by keeping them alive in your heart and speak in the memory of them! They are happy where they are because you remember them!

And as per those leaders who go! We don't recognise them while they are alive! We poke holes in them because we can't believe it is possible to be so in the mist of our problems! Joy for a heart is hard to retain because we are caged in the pursuit of happiness! Joy is earned, it can be bitter sweet most times, happiness is a state of mind!

I have pondered on this long time ago, looking at MLK vs Mandela! Or Muhammed Ali vs Malcom X who survived their passion; they didn't remove Pragmatism "understanding the world the way it really is, weighing the good vs bad and what's wrong from right"! Emotions of Power didn't make them lose respect. They gave to Czar what is Czar and to God what is His! They hoped and dealt with facts and none of them were enemies of progress!

It helps no one who is a Leader to forget what leadership is, as they move to their goals and fall for the temptations that come with power! We worship people as a crowd and forget they are still human!

Hold your leaders hearts and put their actions to question, shooting them down only makes you guilty and further more ignorant!

Obvious mishaps to burried experiences!


I block my ears to the past, I shut my mouth to the present, I open my eyes to the future. It is obviously easy to state experiences of the past present. Converting mistakes into proactive actions changes ones destiny.


Everyone is born again so long as they block their ears to those who wish to remind them of mistakes made unintentionally and put their foot into your future.


From Rivers to Oceans! Old things are gone, the new has come. Obvious mishaps become buried experiences, taping into it may hurt but its a gold mine! Take a breath longer than the average man, and you will swim out alive.

Why No better???

Gossip: better to be said about you "be careful of that person" than "be afraid of that person"

Brothers keeper: When you are a friend you will take the heat for your brother, so that he gets the chance to reflect! Stand by him and he will grow arrogant and make you take the fall! Better to be hated than fall flat on your face!

Do not wash your dirty laundry in public! You are polluting the earth, even if you are purging your soul!

Best way to say I love you- "My heart is with you, but my soul I keep for myself!"

Next time a guy you don't now says "baby I want to know you!" say "google me!"

When someone calls you to remind you of a bill payment say "when I am done saving the world, I will call you."

Ask me! Why does he hurt???

Have we ever stopped to think? Why does he hurt?
He hurts when you cry for little things like your life is over,
He hurts when you fight your brother for a piece of a pie while having the whole cake.
He hates it when you show anger at the innocent just because you can't fight goliath.
He bleeds when you are in pain for lack of will to seek knowledge.

He gave you life,
He gave you freedom,
He gave you the will to be free.

Fnd the liberty to live is all he asks of you.
He is a passionate Parent who built the Earth waiting for your birth!
Cant you feel that energy?
Cant you feel that tender voice that says there is another day with so much more available for you?
He wants his children to grow so HE can be your Partner!

Alsu don't you read?????


Many are asking me
"Alsu don't you read and edit what you write?"
so many grammatical errors, you dont follow the rules of writing in english"
"what about your Image?"
sorry are you dyslexic, we can help with therapies if you need it?

well i can only say.
if i had a voice, i would sing to you! my heart types, my fingers move to its beat.
If i was British i would probably be English :)
and as for following rules, i am one to bend them to suit my russian english!
is it the grammar or is it the message?

i once watched a film called "Finding Forester" where i caught a moment between the Writer and his apprentice. to a question asked he answered let the writers write, so the readers can read! if you are seeking image look at the face, if you seeking soul look at the message. i am happy that you are paying attention, it shows the message was meant for you!

engage the reader. dont loose the soul to image.

01/11/2012

Ask the African Women in Power!

Is it about women or is it about the cradle of life that we are? I have met Ruth & Patience & Lovee & Temi. We are called personalities, that exudes from us. Why did we click? We are the sisterhood of Sexy and the City Africa ":)" such wonderful series. Our hats of to those who made it.
  • Ruth -Practical endeavours, high-goals.
  • Patience - Expansiveness, visionary, adventure, the constructive use of freedom. 
  • Alsu- Responsibility, protection, nurturing, community, balance, sympathy
  • Lovee - Humanitarian, giving nature, selflessness, obligations, creative expression.
  • Temi- A foundation, order, service, opposition to limits, steady growth. 
We all answer our names.
How is it that in theses hands Africa isnt safe? We are the pillars of Womens Hearts! Where we rediscover how to dance Azonto ontop of our men. :) YES this statement is pregnant and yes we give birth to unique babies called business and social development.

Perhaps it will be effective to mix cultures, because it is what we have noticed in Eastern Block, Africa, Asia and the Arabia that we women seem to be negatively competitive when we meet people of same nature and experiences but then so it is with Men!

All 5 of us brainstorm and find loopholes with people who are not like us, we have evolved separately as "WOMAN" to embrace challenge and differences in others, so if you are different it doesn't mean we cant roll with you!. We compliment each other as our strengths complement our endeavours. We are looking for complementation not flatteries. We have developed a personality that allows us to blend while standing out and allowing others to shine if only they put their heads out. If you are intimidated by our knowledge our personality will embrace you.

Do we want to be taken out for dinner, given flowers, poems written, held and loved for our hearts and supported in our desires to bring peace even if you get an occasional smack? Yes we do! Just like any other but hey you are not going to find us talking about what is in fashion, or how our kid pooped, or friend misunderstood her/herself. We are "style" based individuals.

The other day i caught myself walking out of my home without my top, because i was so engrossed in reaching out and hugging the world. All 5 of us have been through those moments.
Mixing cultures dont mean just geographically because that isnt a differentiator.

Ruth! I am able to listen to you and say waw what a lady because you are different from me, i can beat around the bush but you hit straight to the heart, you give me focus. Ruth when she looks at you,  you feel sexy as a woman. Those smokey eyes? Well guys eat ya heart out she is taken.

Ladies if i wasnt straight i'd turn Gay because of Patience. She is patient. With her i can mess around but she still sees me. Why? Are we learning the Congo dance for nothing? In this group we GAY put us in prison and we will still shine. Patience makes you melt like butter. Between the tenderness and sassiness, me want to be but me love those manly hands on the hips..

Temi if not for your outspokenness i wouldn't have had the courage to go my way so soon, yes i was shy, i hide.

Lovee is so pure, a goof ball with a sharp eye for love. My arabian phenix.

They polished, they refined women of the blocked world. We have hearts of a Buddha, the mind of Muhammed and the body of Christ. You want to know us? Dont seek us through religion but faith, we super spirits. The Only one is our shelter. We embrace waterfalls, we stand showered by the waters of our soil. We are strong and we are loving, even if we are in a mans world.

03/10/2012

Why do we trust strangers more than family?


Mark 3:31-35-We get blinded by the scriptures because "Jesus said!" so we don't look deeper into what he meant! Family members brand you and refuse to let go of that image even when you may have rebranded yourself or actually never saw yourself as they did. Possessive attitudes of families! Then later the shame that they have been blind to their bloods strengths.

We cry today that we don't have whom to turn to in hard moments, yet don't stop to think whose hand did we hold in support when they needed it. We often tell our family member that their idea is crazy, yet fail to see that our vision was limited by our unwillingness to admit we are ashamed for what we had done to them, and angry they didn't fight back the stereotyping! Hold your family member, so that you have someone to relay on in times of need, even if its just for the joy of it!

When you make your child look at you as a punisher, when parents use siblings for their own selfish need, why do they expect you to come to them for help? Where a stranger succeeds know that the family pushed away! We are losing our kids not to the streets, but to homes where support has been replaced by the families abuse of ones right to individuality and the experience of life "necessary mistakes for growth"!

We are having psyches on the street today, and those are kids that were abused within their homes and they take it out on the social environment because they couldn't be heard in their homes!
Why would boys need to carry guns? Why would girls need to sleep with different men for validation? We all say its waywardness but who gave them a sense of worth? We are turning on ourselves by pushing blame on others! Africa is getting to the state of total family disintegration like in supposedly civilised countries. Hold your son, mum, dad, uncles, cousins strong not defensive!

What profits a man to gain the world and loose his soul? We are all seeking recognition when what we should be doing is being relevant!

Love yall!