A lady who wasn't married once asked me "are you married?" I said "yes"! And in her contra reply I got "and he allows you to have a voice?" At the time I couldn't comprehend what she meant by that! Now I realise it could be 2 things, either she was intimidated or she was stating a fact that African men are intimidated by women who know what they want.In experience I have seen men more interested to know who one is and African women hating a woman who seems to overshadow their opportunities for standing out! I have met a lot of physically abusive men as psychologically abusive women both in Africa and Europe ie white and black ethnic group of people! Remember when someone tries to stop your progress or standing out, it's more likely their personality rather than an attribute to an ethnic group! Of course some ethnic groups dominate the scenes when it comes to exhibiting inferiority complexes, their hearts are fragile so be patient with kids!
